Cheating and Sexting

[PANDAmonium]

I put on my robe and my wizard hat - BloodNinja

So sexting you may think its a harmless pastime but i'm going to dis

agree. You may say to yourself that sexting is harmless because you aren't actually touching the other individual, and hell you aren't even looking at them eithter. But the reality is that you are building an emotional relationship with the person that is something beyond just friendship provided its a continuous thing. And as most people would agree that is a form of cheating, and as we all know cheating is wrong.

Now I want to explain to you all why sexting is the worst possible form of cheating that there is. Many of you may disagree with me on that sentiment but let me explain. The reason why sexting is the worst form of cheating is because what's the point? You aren't getting the actual physical satisfaction of actually having sex nor are you even building a relationship with a tangible person, literally all you are doing is talking to someone who you don't know about doing something that you know you're not supposed to - and usually that you aren't DOING at all. Now let me explain why I said that you are building an emotional relationship with the person that you are sexting with. As we all know people are capable of having long distance relationships which means we are capable of forming attachments to people who we have never met. So when you begin to sext with someone you begin to form a bond with them that is well beyond the realm of what is ok for you to do when you are in a relationship. Which means sexting while in a relationship with someone who you are not in a relationship with is wrong.

You may think to yourself that it is all harmless and that even if your partner found out they wouldn't be mad. But try to imagine if you were to find that your significant other was cheating you on but not with someone in real life but with someone online with whom they never have meani

ngful conversations but rather just talk about boning with. A little upsetting no? Now for those of you who this take may apply to you may try and justify your actions by saying that your partner wouldn't care, and if you do say that I want to challenge to go to your partner and tell them what you are doing. If they don't have problem then congratulations continue on your e-banging ways. But if they do have problem with it then I still congratulate for you owning up to what you've done. Lastly for those of you who refuse to tell your partner what you are doing I really hope your partner finds out and that you have a pleasant conversation.

Dont cheat and especially dont sext because your partner may actually look like this

[sephylove]

Sexting is a form cheating lol. It would blow my mind if anyone else thinks otherwise. And if your girl says it's "ok" it's BS. She's either secretly plotting to murder your balls or sexting other guys as well on the DL.

[18burakparlak]

You are too right

[GoldCobra]

Cheating's bad mmmmkay

[Anonymous]

I agree never did with pics didn't intend kinda got out if hand but afterwards you feel like shit. Like i had promised myseld no sex stuff till marraige and he is texting me. It is not innocent you are so on target. In the end I refused to do it again and he said that means i dont care about him hell it means i ain't gonna compromise my values any. more because that conpromises me.

[PANDAmonium]

It's good that you stood up for what you believe in

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for not looking down on me

[PANDAmonium]

Shit happens. It's life. Point is you saw the situation and decided you didn't like it and acted in a way that you felt was right

[koibito]

I don't think it's worst than actually cheating, but to argue about "how much you're cheating" is really just an exercise in semantics. It's like saying, what's the difference between kicking in the face a Golden Retriever or a Bulldog. Not much difference.

[countryman195]

Sexting, is a form of cheating regardless because your sending pictures of yourself that is meant for your significant other.
It can get you into a lot of trouble.

[cavmanier]

I agree. Some may not see it as cheating, but I wouldn't want my girl sexting other people.

[thomasjjeffy]

Sexting is without a doubt a form of cheating. How ever I don't think that it is worse than actually having sex with someone.

[Hrothgar]

Never do anything you wouldn't approve of your partner doing.

[Hannah591]

Oh this is not good to read, for me. Does sexting include playing a "questions game" in which you ask each other when you last masturbated etc?

[PANDAmonium]

Well a lot of that depends on the circumstances surrounding it, and also what you were thinking while it was going on. But I'd say if that was where a conversation was that the chances are it wasn't exactly good. Can you give me a little more context?

[Hannah591]

A girl added him on FB that he met years before. Then they were texting though he didn't tell me. Said he'd stop for me. I found he was talking to her again and tried to hide it. Said he'd stop talking. Found their messages in which they were playing a sexual questions game. She kept asking about me too.
He says he regrets it all because it basically ruined our relationship and we're still recovering.

[Hannah591]

I've never sexted or really come across it so I don't really know if that counted.

[PANDAmonium]

Yeah im gonna go ahead and say that counted. The fact that he tried to hide it from you and the fact that he's trying to recover from it - yeah that was sexting.

[Hannah591]

Ah damn. :\

[PANDAmonium]

Sorry :\ but its better that you know. Sucks I had to be the one to tell you.

[Hannah591]

It's fine, I knew it was something because I felt the pain and betrayal.

[PANDAmonium]

Well I dont know if you are still with him but I hope things work out for you.

[Hannah591]

I am, though he says I should leave and thanks.

[kopperheadroad]

True i agree and for the record i didn't look like that

[kopperheadroad]

You can totally get attached

[Anonymous]

This Generation is the hook up Generation. So what's the point of this question?

[PANDAmonium]

Its a take not a question.

[Angieeebabieee]

I just found out my partner has been sexting and it destroyed all the trust i had build up with him... we were getting ready to move in together because he insisted on it

[Addictedtosexting]

You really should check out the new documentary on sexting. It's call Addicted to Sexting. It's on VOD, iTunes, & Amazon.

[Yjingi]

hey thanks for the tip , the doc is very interesting :)

[YourFutureEx]

Yeah exactly. That's something I opined on a question couple of days ago.

Good take.

[Cowboy6666]

I'm still single so I might try sexting if I find a girl now for cooperating with me 😉

[youknowitt]

It's a good thing that I'm single.

[anshul177]

I'm single too let's do it 😂😎

[CommieDearest]

Totally agreed