Questions: Relationships

Would you rather be the person who got the girl in her late teen's/early 20's for relationship when she is not looking for anything super serious or the person who got the girl when she is ready to settle down and get married (late 20's-30+) and she most likely wants you to put a ring on her.

Example

Girl on left-Teens/early 20's. Girl on the right late 20's. 30+ range.

From this male gager's quote: "You'd be the first girl to ever admit to this. Before someone calls me out like some have with you, men love pretty much unconditionally. Other than not getting sex or getting along with the girl, there's generally nothing else that will make a guy change their mind about a girl. Turn the roles around, and think of how many things can affect a woman's love, it goes beyond sex and getting along. Guys definitely experience love very differently and more passionate than girls do, specially the younger they are. That's not to say you won't get hurt along the way by a guy, or that there aren't guys who play with women. But generally speaking, guys get easier attached to girls, it's a male trait and one girls shouldn't exploit but use it for making good/solid relationships. It's admirable that you recognize this trait, to be honest."

So let say a guy with no limbs (hands or feet) comes to the sperm bank wanting to donate some sperm.


He obviously can't jerk himself off, so he needs assistance. Suppose a female nurse is asked to help him out.

However, she is in a relationship with someone. Would it be considered cheating if she jacks off another male as part of her job?

Option 1 (SINGLE MOM) - Single mothers. They have 1 or more kids. Their kids are their number one priority, followed by them and then the father. You come in fourth. Part of her reason for picking you might be because she is looking for a provider and/or possible father figure for her kids. If you choose to take part in a relationship you might form strong bond with her kid and grow attached. However, you will be constantly reminded by her and the kid if you over step that you are not the father. In addition, there is always the possible threat that she might kick you to the curb if the father and her rekindle and get back together so they can be a family.



OPTION 2 (Women looking to settle down) - She's gone through her bad boy phase, party girl phase, traveled, had exciting sex with different men, ONS, as well as, been in a couple of relationships that didn't last and is now looking to settle down with someone who is willing to commit. Usually women in this age range can be anywhere from their late 20's to women in their 30's.

Part of her reason for her liking you might not be 100% because she total lust after you. Her attraction for you might also partially come from the fact that you have a stable job, are willing to commit and essential can provide her a stable life and environment to raise children. Sex life is more tamed, less exciting than what she had with men in the past and tends to become less frequent the longer your relationship progresses. As a couple you also tend to do boring stuff such as going to IKEA to purchase furniture on a weekend and it's less exciting compared to relationship in early 20's that people experience during college/high school.

OPTION 3 (Remain single forever) - Stay in perpetual bachelorhood and never get into a relationship. Do whatever you like to do for fun, travel the world and have the occasional ONS if that's your thing. If you can't get girls at all then use escorts for sex.

So my girlfriend of 8 years with some huge ups and downs (she has a drinking problem and turns violent) wanted to go to a major country concert a couple hours away. When I said I wasn't into it, she posted on FB that she was looking to go if someone had any extra tix avail and is fun at concerts. She told me that her friend from HS reached out and invited her (he bought two Tix but recently broke up with his gf) when I told her it bothered me she said "it's the same as when you go to things where all these young girls in bikinis are at without me" referring to when I hang at the beach with my buddies and their wives and wives younger sisters while my girlfriend is working.
Also, she changed her FB settings so I can't even see her friends unless they are mutual friends. Says she doesn't know how to fix it.
Before she confirmed this concert date I invited her to a different local concert for the night before and now I'm not even sure I want to take her.
Should I be concerned?
Happy to provide more info if you need it.
Thanks.

I am 22. The older I get, the younger 18 year old girls are starting to look.

I was testing at my local community college and there were a lot of them there. Their birth year is 1998 according to the sign in roster.

But I find their youth, innocence, and naiveness attractive. I like to work my way to them and exploit that innocence.

Is that wrong?

Would you break up with your boyfriend if u found out he fucked a tranny in the past before meeting you and came inside his (male to female tranny) asshole during sex without protection.

Let say he looked like this:

This is what he looked like before turning into a girl:

I had sex with a coworker of mine and I have decided not to tell my girlfriend about it. I think it would just unnecessarily hurt her, so it's not worth it. We're very serious and we are going to get married one day and I don't want to jeopardize that.

The problem is that I still feel guilty. Every time we have sex or I look her in the eyes or kiss her, I just feel horrible. Will this feeling ever pass? I felt much worse the day after it happened, so I think the feeling of guilt is fading slowly, but how long will it take? Does anyone have any advice as to how to get over it?

Thanks in advance.