Questions: Relationships

I feel obligated to ask this question now, after more than two days of arguing with @Boredandconfused and trying to explain to her that white men find white women much less desirable and won't commit to them if they slept with a black man before she and lots of other women still think its somekind of a consirapcy and that iam lying to her even though i have nothing to gain out of this, not to mention calling every guy who agrees insecure with a small package...

So here's my question, you are a confident guy with a good job and a home/flat... etc you are young and looking for something serious, are you ready to date, and eventully marry a woman you know for a fact dated and slept with black men in the past? will you marry such a woman and make her the mother of you children?

My coworker married his high school sweetheart and has a 10 month old child with her.

I am his age [21] and I have never even had a girlfriend.

I am wanting to be a girl's first love, but every girl that I start talking to, I find out she has been in love before and in serious relationships. Even most of the really Christian girls I meet are like that too.

I feel I have completely have no hope and want to give up on life.

The conversation with her and her argument on killing old white men:
Why we should kill old straight white men

I got real tired of these 'racial preference polls' So I made one of my own, with you know, Actually different races, not different ethnicities

A backup boyfriend is a male who is stuck somewhere between the boyfriend and friend status. A girl sees potential in him being a boyfriend but he doesn't check off all the things on her physical attraction list for a mate and so she deems him just a friend for the time being while she is still looking.

Usually a backup boyfriend sometimes plays boyfriend duty while a girl is single and even when she is in a relationship; if her current boyfriend is slacking off. The backup boyfriend can get elevated to boyfriend status under following conditions:

1. Rebound guy after a girl just came out of a breakup
2. If a girl just got dumped and feels really shitty about herself
3. If a girl is feeling old and past her prime and is still single.

The girl in question usually always knows that the backup boyfriend had feelings for her or he actually did confess feelings for her at one point.

Guy's question: Do you suspect you are the backup boyfriend for some girl you are currently friends with?

Im talking about full blown sexual love, nut busting 24/7. Not "i sometimes giggle when he looks my way"