If she cheated on her ex boyfriend in the past, will she cheat on me too?

[Anonymous]

Ok I just started dating a girl who I know cheated on her ex boyriend in the past although it was because she was unhappy in her former relationship. Im really attracted to her and shee seems really into me but we are not exclusive yet but thats because I've been hurt in the past and I dont want to get burned again and thats why im afraid to get involved with a girl who cheated in the past. What should I do?

[mojo_jojo]

Has she had a life changing event since she cheated? If not, I would put it around 60% chance. My Ex was independent, bitch to most guys and pretty honest about everything else and def knew how to keep me happy. But, when I was away she cheated. I've seen women cheat who have been faithful for years too. They are either selfish/greedy or too weak to be on their own so they always need someone to take care of the. If you are that person taking care of her then she will take it to her grave. Women cheat more often than you think.
You are taking a chance and women can tell you they love you, hold you, cuddle all day long and still cheat. I believe that's why my ex used to get so many headaches.
Def, wait a little bit longer before you make any commitments.

[BCRanger10]

There are some important things to consider. First, was that her first and only time cheating? Second, how did her then-boyfriend find out? Third, why was she so unhappy in that relationship that instead of talking about it with him or just breaking up, she cheated? And finally, when, why, and how did she tell you?

I normally say give them a shot, but proceed with caution, at least for now.

[Asker]

Wel she actually didn't tell me but everybody knows although she knows that people know but we didn't really talk about it. Her ex and everybody else found out simply due to the guy that she cheated with didn't keep his mouth shut and he told his friends, his friends told to other friends and eventually everybody found out. Her ex somehow let himself go, got busy and she probably wasn't even attracted to him anymore but I dont know the details. If that was her first and only itme cheating I have no idea. This was simply when she was caught but I dont know if she has other history of cheating.

[cherrymarina]

It really depends. If her former boyfriend was a complete asshole and hurt her really bad then I guess that's what she did to feel better. However if he was a normal dude and she cheated because she couldn't control herself or didn't have the cuts to break up with him then I would be very careful. Only you know what kind of a person she is.

[selmo93]

No. People change and make mistakes. Make it exclusive and then you need to work on yourself as if you use that as an excuse to miss out on a chance of happiness then you'll regret it

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

No, if she was unhappy then maybe she just didn't know how to leave the relatinoship

[bryon]

With a known history of infidelity, I couldn't trust her completely. That is all fine and well that she wasn't happy in that relationship, but really she should have ended it with dude and went on with her life. My philosophy is is once burnt , twice shy. If it were me I would pass rather than take the chance

[JudgmentDay]

She could be using you as a rebound guy, who knows for certain?

Maybe you should have a second lady you would want to date and commit to that does not have this kind of past history. But right now, you are taking chances and therefore there will always be a chance of being hurt again. If you are uncertain, don't take it so seriously, give it time and observe her behavioral pattern carefully. Any big amount of red flags and it's time to split up and start over again.

[Bugsbunnysghost]

Fuck it. Just run dude. Women are less likely to cheat. If she cheated on a guy, she must have some problems probably will occur in the future. Just leave her. Those cheating people should die alone and never taste love again.

[Nomad69]

I agree those heartless mofos. Send them Heartless by kanye west

[Anonymous]

once a cheater always a cheater. she clearly lacks in the loyalty part and if you did still date her you will be paranoid about whether she is cheating on you or not. there are many girls in this world that never and will never cheat, find yours among them. leave the cheaters for other cheaters to cheat on.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Yes it is a huge possibility if she was unfaithful in the past, she will most likely cheat on you because it's easy for her

[evenlift]

People can change, but in adulthood they rarely do to a significant extent.

[cth96190]

Prior behaviour is the most reliable indicator of future behaviour.

[Nomad69]

Once a cheater always a cheater in my books. She should of broke up with him not strung him along. Get exclusive or just be friends with benefits

[Loveherbut]

I hate cheaters more than anythinh but true fact she was honest with you

[anonman32]

i think it does increase the chance, i would prepare for it.

[Anonymous]

Once someone is a cheater you will always have a doubt about them.

[FlamingoHunter]

There is a relatively high probably, yes.

[Anonymous]

I cheated before but not on the guy I'm with now!!

[Nomad69]

Shame on you. All these people admitting to cheating it makes it harder to trust women

[rick313]

@Nomad69 yeah, shame on the truth. Much better to hide it and life a lie.

[Nomad69]

@rick313 Haha that's not good either I guess

[Opinion Owner]

@Nomad69 my point is I cheated because I was unhappy but I have never cheated on this guy... if a relationship gets to a point of cheating it is poisonous and past the point of salvation. Its not about 'trusting women' its about making an effort in a relationship to keep her happy. U dont, someone will.

[Nomad69]

Haha whatever you think.

[Asker]

"Its not about 'trusting women' its about making an effort in a relationship to keep her happy. U dont, someone will."So basically as soon as something goes wrong with your current relationship you will cheat on him too. Well thanks for the insight.

[Opinion Owner]

Nope... Not as soon as something goes wrong. His dad died a year ago and his mother has been vile towards me. We have had our fair share of crap times. I still haven't cheated. It's about a woman putting in all the effort n the guy doing nothing that I've ended up moving on.

[Opinion Owner]

Also don't need a bunch of kids thinking they know anything about grown up relationships,

[Nomad69]

Getting dicked by the neighbor is never okay I don't care if the nigga is in jail its still cheating!

[Opinion Owner]

@Nomad69 wow did that happen to you? My cheating was never like that... I wouldn't cheat for sex I have toys for that! For me it was a personal connection not a physical one.

[Nomad69]

Yeah basically they lied about who they were with and how old he was. Plus a lesbian experience I took as an admission of guilt. I always think of "sex" when I hear cheating to be honest and their is more to it than that

[DrTruth]

Slags are only worthy of a pump and dump.

[PersianPrincessss]

There is a possibility yes

[bcromartie]

Panic.