Is it possible to be dominant and submissive at the same time?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I feel very dominant and controlling when I'm with a person, and sometimes I feel submissive with the same person. Is this normal?

[Oram52]

Never felt that way tbh, I know its possible sexually, such person is called a switch. Personality wise I am not sure.

Keep an eye in the future when do you feel submissive and when do you feel dominant. That might give you better insight.

[Asker]

But I'm not talking just sexually, im talking in normal life too.

[Oram52]

Is it just one individual or few people you are like that with, or it could be with anyone. Does it depend on gender, for example is it same with guys or girls?

[Asker]

Girls. I don't have this problem with guys.

[Oram52]

Only with girls part is interesting. Can't say why. However like I said pay attention when you feel dominant or submissive. Pay attention to yourself and the person you're talking to.

[Oram52]

thanks for MHO.

[serious]

At the same time?

I am not sure, but it's difficult I guess.

[Victorianne]

Yes it's normal. Different occasions and situations can make a dominant person submissive and vice versa. Plus, people's moods change so they become more dominant or more submissive , depending on how they feel.

[Victorianne]

Thanks for the MHO

[LaFemmeFatale]

It is possible to feel dominant with submissive person and to be submissive with someone who seems to be more dominant than you. It depends on the person you are with.

[Asker]

My problem is I'm both with the same person.

[LaFemmeFatale]

It is still normal, don't worry :)

[zombiebabe]

yeah.. it may have something to do with the other person

[Rodismus]

I was going to say it's called a switch but damn, everyones already on that.

[Shiprex]

It's not when it's different times with the same person

[ConsultantIsBack]

I'm way dominant but I like aggressive girls too. Like aggressively sub? Lol yeah

[LaVilaine]

Yes, that's normal. Very few people are static.

[Phoenix98]

Yup it's called being a switch, I'm one.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's called being a Switch.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so, that's called switch.

[Anonymous]

Yeah it's a switch.