Polls: Relationships

Agree or disagree? do you often find yourself when you get into a relationship you fall for them fast and start really ruminating about your possible future together but once things really get serious you lose interest?

She doesn't want to communicate, she remain silent

I am not getting the benefits of being an adult. Just about all my peers are married, many with kids. Meanwhile, I never even had a real girlfriend. People are moving on in life while I am not progressing. I also still live at home under my mother's wing. I am hardly getting by. I have bills now and people have higher expectations of me. I haven't had sex in 8 years since I lost my virginity. Life sucks.

School started back up and my girlfriend lately has been declining my calls a lot even outside of class hours. She often goes the whole morning and afternoon without sending me a single message and then I call and she just hits decline and sends me nothing still until late at night. She said she would send me a small quick text to let me know what's going on as for why she declined the call, but she doesn't do that. I try to be very understanding if she is really busy but it doesn't seem like it should be so hard to send me a small message. I have no idea if i'm being too needy or not. one of my friends said she would freak out and start spam calling if her boyfriend did that. I was curious what more people think.

The contrasting difference between their skin tones makes it look more interesting and sexy/attractive or sort of weird and unappealing?

This is mainly to those in a relationship currently but if you are single do you fear you won't be with anyone new in your life?

I feel like my ex was emotionally abusive. I used to really be into her more than she was into me. She used tell me “I didn’t want this relationship, you did”. And when people would ask how we met she’d say “I didn’t wanna date him”. I explained to her how it hurts me when she says these things m. And she’d say “you’re just insecure”.

What’s even worse, she told me about how before we started dating. She went on dates with guys who she really liked and they rejected her. So am I the nice guy who finished last?

I used to be highly attracted to her. She never wanted sex with me, at the same time, complaining that her ex boyfriend didn’t want sex with her. She barely wanted to be affectionate with me.

Even worse, she used deliberately turn me on so she could sexually reject me. Would tell me “come over I’ll lick your balls and your butt” and refuse sex when I show up. Every single time we’d have an argument, even if it’s minor she’d say “you’re getting none”. So I started keeping silent to avoid conflict.

She used to complain that I’m not making her happy and give me reasons why. Which I’ll admit I’m not perfect, I know I have my flaws and bad habits, but. When I’d tell her what she’s doing to make me unhappy she’d reply “you knew I was a bitch when you met me”.

About 3 weeks ago we went to a Thanksgiving dinner at her friends house and I felt like she was kinda flirty with a guy. She seemed very touchy with him. I even saw her put her arm around him. I mentioned it to her a few days later. About how I was uncomfortable with how she behaved with him, and again. Told me “im insecure” and broke up with me. Denied ever putting her arm around him when I saw her do it.

It’s been a couple weeks and I’m still emotionally hurting over her. Haven’t been able to eat or sleep. Having nightmares and visions of her in bed with other men. I’ve dated and had sex with other women since. But I still can’t get her out of my head. What should I do?

Would you be absolutely comfortable and open to be in relationship with a dark skinned person?

Why / why not?

I am 29 and never had a girlfriend. I am only wanting a woman that has never had a boyfriend or romantic bond, especially from her youth.

But my concern is, if a woman has gone into her 20s never having a boyfriend, is there likely a reason, such as being aromantic or asexual or less of a desire to fall in love?

The stereotype is that women are more likely to tolerate a cheater than vice versa. But I believe that is mostly true if she depended on him for money. That financial dependence is lessening in the past few decades in the western world.

Now I think too many men tolerate cheating women.

I am all alone and have always been single. Lately I have been feeling really sand and lonely as if I am missing something...

And there seems to be an opportunity to be in relationship with a dark woman. She is showing some signs and hints of wanting to talk to me more and possibly take things further.

But the thing is she's too dark. She would be my first ever girlfriend. Wouldn't it make me embarrassed in society especially in my friend circle to show her? What if we marry and reproduce dark children?