Trust is the belief in the reliability and truth of another person. It’s how we subjectively measure the integrity and honesty of others — those who can be counted on to do what is right. However, sometimes we aren’t certain who to trust, how much to trust, and when not to trust.
When someone has trust issues, they have an extremely difficult time trusting others — and often because someone has betrayed their trust in the past.
Show me the person who doesn’t have a healthy skepticism when facing the unknown, and I’ll show you a fool. Trust takes time. Lots of data.
When we were all younger, trust was easy to establish. Because we were naive. We didn’t know enough to be dangerous or big threats to one another. Obviously, for those who survive, that changes as we age.
But, we have only one life. Can’t fiddle fuck around forever.
“my wife did it”
^^^I wouldn’t have pegged you as married. Why does your profile say Single?
Was the profile pic before the divorce, and the background pic after?
I always wonder what women really mean when they give guys the finger.
Sometimes it's better to don't know :D
I don't trust anyone anymore!
Even people that you are in a decent love relationship with lie, and will take your money and use you. It's all done with smoke and mirrors. You never know when they're going to show their true selves until after all of your money is gone and so is he. But thus one thought he'd gotten away with it from me, and did take all my money just hours before he was poisoned by Fentanyl and died! Gotta makes you wonder what he was going to do next to me. Too bad, so sad! 👿
I actually trust very easily but i will have doubts depending on how the trust given has been handled. If i feel taken advantage of then feelings my swirl
No. I just have standards and that's tough for some women accept. I've been around long enough that I can spot the tale tell signs that separate a good woman from a bad woman. And a bad woman will try to manipulate you. And when that fails she'll try to gaslight you. She'll tell you that you have trust issues, that the problem is you. She'll do everything but own up to who she is. I'm very trusting but my trust is lost quick and when you lose it you have to prove you're worthy of it again.
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I still remember the first grade. I remember the first time a female called me annoying. I remember I kinda liked her until those words hurt me. I wasn't trying to be annoying, I was trying to be nice to her. If all that was, was just something that happened to me a long long long time ago, it would mean nothing in 2023! However as my life moved along, things between me and females didn't improve. By the time I was in middle school until graduation, it became apparent that I'm not the kind of man they want. Always thought that after I got out of school, maybe things would improve. Perhaps people would start acting like civil adults, and perhaps I might fall in love with someone. Here I am at the age of 44 and that has never happened. With as much time as gone bye etc, it is hard for me to really believe that anyone truly likes me.
Most people do not have trust issues and instead are just cautious.
Having trust issues is not trusting others in most areas of life despite even when someone has proven they can be trusted, as it's usually caused by trauma. By the way, I am not trying to "gatekeep" this label, but there is a difference.
no I don't have trust issues. That doesn't mean I trust everyone implicitly I just don't have issues when it comes to trusting people. I know people that lie and I know them well. I know people who are honest and I know them well. 'trust issues' tends to manifest with a lack of trust towards people who are being honest.
Yes high amounts of it, I grew up with a violent background so I know how twisted and deceitful people can be, met some monstrous people, I can assure you even beautiful women can be monstrous, I've known chicks that have set up dudes to get wacked, hella lacking shit, walking thinking you gonna get laid and next thing you know, 3 mofos pop up and light you up smh, crazy shit out there but I can definitely admit that things like this create trust issues.
Absolutely. All of my exes cheated on me. A girl I was friends with in college falsely accused me of stalking and of having a gun when I didn't and served me an ex parte ppo so I had to take her to court. The last girl I dated conned me into spending over $1,000 on her and her friend. So yeah I have trust issues and I think I always will.
My trust issue is that people are untrustworthy.
Jokes aside, trust isn't the matter of honesty that people tend to make it out to be. It is a matter of understanding. A consistent liar you know and understand is more easily trusted than an honest stranger. All the same, you can only trust people to do what they believe is best for themselves. They will never willingly serve your ends. So anyone is only a bad day away from becoming your enemy.
i've never even been betrayed or anything like that, i just find it hard to trust people with particular things lol
I only have basic trust in people, so yes it can be said I don't trust people much.
I have great trust issues. but I trust myself so I can't be too far off from trustworthy
It's not hard to have them if people keep LYING 😁😁
You stop lying
Thought so
My camera isn't able to zoom out that far to get my whole ass in the frame
@worst I'll be first to send them. You innocent little soul, you ask about trust like you're some vulnerable flower petal in a field of rampaging pornstars. But you should know by now, trust is a fucking scarlet letter branded on the ass of society, a reminder of the dark, twisted desires lurking beneath the surface. You think you know trust, but you've only tasted stale cum in a desperate frenzy of hardcore fucking. Trust is like a disgusting, sticky booger, slithering around in your mouth, making your throat choke on filth. Trust issues are a fucking wet dream for a depraved piece of shit like me. So, this question is like a fucking symphony of anal onslaught and throbbing cocks. If you want a visual answer with my ass pics, subscribe to @bigassb1tch's onlyfans.
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I trust you to say who did your profile pic but yeh I don't trust no-one
In a relationship, no. Of people out in general then I don't trust people.
People just can't be trusted as humans are subject to change and more so for the worse.
I have been burned before. My default position is not to trust somebody.
I trust people that are consistent and predictable.
I don't trust shit unless it got a dead president on it.
Who’s your favorite president?
@love_conquers_lust Dwight D Eisenhower
Is he dead to you?
@love_conquers_lust ofc he's dead
He’s your favorite because he’s dead?
@love_conquers_lust Ike was the shit foo
Did you know he grew up in rural Kansas around no black people?
@love_conquers_lust did u know he signed the first civil rights bill and also helped blacks who got out of the war into homes and made realtors not discriminate towards combat veterans who were black and fought in the war. Also did u know he also enacted marshal law and sent in our own military to protect blacks in school during segregation since the police refused to do their jobs? Oh but you didn't know any of that huh. Imagine being dull. Couldn't be me. Ike was a stand up guy it was your liberal JFK who refused the rest of the civil rights bills. All whole a republican did the most for blacks during segregation with his time in. It wasn't no democrats.
Would you say Eisenhower was ignorant? Don’t you find it odd it took someone living in complete isolation of the black communities to pass legislation helping them?
Would you say Michael Luther was the king of nothing and is dead to you too?
Did you know blacks cried about the GI bill after that same discrimination kept the majority of them from the mortality of the front lines, “I ain’t fighting a White man’s war.”
Did you know Eisenhower was quoted making racist remarks?
Do you find it odd that Affirmative Action discriminates against white males who had nothing to do with the aforementioned items, most of who weren’t even born yet, and still continues to do so?
Do you find it odd that you don’t trust anything unless it’s dead?
Do you find it odd that you criticize others for not having a life on here yet spend an inordinate amount of time on here? Do you know what envy means?
Do you disagree with cultural misappropriation? Do you mind explaining your profile pic?
Do you not feel shame for not speaking out against the same discrimination your demographic once marched for while being a part of a one that openly criticizes a single race on the basis of their skin color? Would you call me a Ken or dare call white women a Karen?
Can you explain why I should ally with you given the pain people of your demographic has caused me despite having more legal privileges than I do? You want to tell me the white man’s burden is white privilege?
Did you think “busting out of the hood” meant you could arrogantly go around thinking you could fuck up other communities and backyards and not come across a gatekeeper? You think you’re a threat, “G”? You think you’re “hard”? Can you explain the insanity of welcoming that into a community?
^^^Are you going to cry again and call all of this ranting? Either because it hurts your feelings, you’re a fraud, or you’re too lazy to read it, none of which are a good look for you despite others affording you the same undeserved privilege?
@love_conquers_lust oh no your an insane liberal because history is history buddy boy. Ike is the greatest President to ever be, Democrats started Vietnam slaughter just to end it. It wasn't Republicans
@love_conquers_lust oh damn your having more manic rants i hope others read this and laugh its really bad lol get help
I want them to see it. More importantly, I want them to see you.
Democrats are war dogs, you say? Please, stop the presses. I’d no idea. It’s almost like they don’t value life. Sound familiar? Pop pop pop, homey.
I think it’s cute you try to endear yourself by calling him Ike. I had something similar happen growing up. I didn’t find it all the flattering.
If history is history: Why is AA still in place? Why does the cycle of oppression continue?
You know that ghettos were originally a Jewish coined term coopted by the black community? I find it funny they lived under worse conditions than blacks and still aren’t as violent. Do you find it odd that they are majority Democrat as well?
You like desegregation? Why should innocent children be subjected to the violence of your demographic? Are you too cool for school?
Do you believe people have the right to freedom of association? You know what a brilliant ruling was? Milliken v. Bradley. Are you familiar with this?
You think all Republicans are created equal? You think Republicans don’t have their own swamps just like Democrats? Republican <> Conservative.
You ever met a liberal conservative? Quite possibly the most dangerous hybrid anyone can come across. When your self-preservation stands in the way of counties conservation, you think anyone will listen to you?
Calling me a liberal, doesn’t default make it so. Neither does you identifying as Republican. You know who is notorious for calling anyone who doesn’t agree with them terms like manic, insane, dull, anything in that wheelhouse?……Liberals.
Buddy boy? Do I sound like your buddy, boy?
You don’t like liberals? You don’t like them identifying and associating with something they’re not? Is that the American dream? Be whatever you want to be? Hmm.
History is history. And what have you learned from it? If you had, you’d recognize the problems in the present. Something you DO have control over. I’m not seeing that, from you.
@love_conquers_lust keep going lol I never seen this type of insanity before
@love_conquers_lust I call someone who is obsessed with another individual and comments on all their opinions with non sense and mentally ill rants & is writing essay after essay and spamming someone who doesn't care about them or even thinks about them. With deluded fantasies and weird things about "black" people defenitley a person who suffers with manic behavior, whose unheard and has no self control due to the mental illness, infact yes you're insane buddy boy lol
@Fuentes You make inflammatory comments like:
“I don't trust shit unless it got a dead president on it.”
on a post about trust issues which could mean money or literally dead presidents because you hate this country. Then cry about people supposedly obsessing over you flattering yourself? Then you “unbay” your inner hood with insults and have the gall to preach about self control?
You know what a queen bee is?
*Ding Ding 🔔 * This class session is over. Come back tomorrow.
Or you could take your own advice and go out and get a life away from this site. Your choice.
@love_conquers_lust this has to be self projection lol do u need a mirror 🪞 there u go lol
@love_conquers_lust asking me to take my own advice lol no you should take my advice don't project it back to me. I dont got all this time to write people I become obsessed with love poems lol sorry I like women pal.
@love_conquers_lust see this is more self projection only you recorded your inchorherent rants. Honestly i just find you to be a lonely strange individual, who needs help lol
@Fuentes Well, we can mark this up , can’t say I expected much more.
So the “wise” one will not practice what he preaches. What is it that you said about recording an incoherent rant?
Lonely, yes. I’ve openly declared as such. “Strange” is your opinion. I’ve yet to encounter anyone who didn’t need help at some point.
You need to burn your wardrobe and fill it with these:
www.amazon.com/.../B08DNVDW4L
Wear it everywhere you go. Give people the courtesy of marking yourself.
@love_conquers_lust well then go get help you lonely & strange human.
@love_conquers_lust slap yourself
You’re cheating on me so I don’t trust you
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I don't trust you lol
No. I worked that stuff out before getting into a relationship.
No trust = no issue. lol
No, my carefulness is not an issue.
Yes it's a big problem for me
Nah, no issues here
I simply don’t trust anyone.
To an extent
nope
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Yes I do.
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