Polls: Relationships

The new season of ‘You’ is out y’all! I haven’t watched it yet but I’m about to start 😅

I love this man. I LOVE this man. He’s so damn fine. I just wanna give him a little kiss. A little smoochy smooch, if you will.
he’s just so….. yum. On a scale of 1-10, he’s daddy. Even watching him play a psychopath in the show I’m just like “ugh yes, break into my house and stalk me instead 😫😫.”
That’s how I know I’m attracted to toxic men because I feel the same way when I watch Dexter too 💀 Dexter is sexy as fuck as well but that’s another topic for a different question.

Look at his wittle smile with his cute little tooth gap 🥺🥺🥺🥺 I love it

Are you happy in your current relationship?

If you are in one, what was it.

I have dated probably a hundred women over the past 35 years. Most of the breakups were the civilized, "this doesn't seem to be working well for either of us" kind of break ups. A few were the embarrassing kind that bring out the worst in everyone. At least the bad break ups helped me to avoid picking such awful partners again.

The worst involved my girlfriend getting drunk, accusing me of being unfaithful with various women around the country (I was at home EVERY night and never cheated on her,) trying to snatch my phone from my hand, losing her grip and falling backwards, hitting her head on the wall, then calling police and having ME arrested for domestic violence. Typical cop bias resulted in me spending a night in jail before the prosecutor eventually decided that there was NO evidence to support any domestic violence charge and the case was dismissed. Lesson learned and I now stay away from girls who seem to drink just a little too much, too often.

Have most of your break ups been peaceful? Any horror stories to share?

We never know if we snore unless someone tells us really. I would like to think that I don't snore, I've never had any complaints.

I think if my partner snored I'd have to get them one of those sleep pacifiers to prevent snoring. It would drive me crazy.

To conserve water.

I am ignoring my best friend and a lot of people anyway i only care about my best friend i always send memes and things like this but in few last days i got mad from something and my friend is like never online and I text she respond like one word or two like always but in real life she is completely different she's lovely person and we are always together but as texting online she is cold with everyone not just me and never online on any app. After i ignored her for a week should i text her memes like always or stay like this until i meet her in person ( in next two weeks i will) i really love her and i know she is like this only on social media but in real life she is amazing and love me but i become cold because of her responses and i am not in a good mood.

I need help settling a debate with my girlfriend.

She travels a lot and mentions meeting new people all the time. Sometimes men. When she says they had a great conversation, I ask her if she mentioned having a boyfriend. She said no, why would she mention her boyfriend, that's weird.

So is it weird or not weird?

And before all the haters come out telling me she's cheating on me... just don't bother. If I believed that I would not even post.

The debate is over if it's weird to make a piont to mention in casual coversation that you have significant other or not. Like they say something about the weather. And you say something like, "Yeah, my boy/girlfriend real loves this type of weather."

Is it normal to be "too busy" to give a kiss or hug before doing stuff your mind is set on?

Background Info:

I use to want to not touch and love up on my girlfriend due to never doing such before (uncomfortable) and wanting to take things slow, and now the tables have flipped. Been with her for 2-3 years now, love her dearly, and she claims to love me the same, yet it feels like she's always too busy doing stuff to take a moment to feel and appreciate our love.

Whenever I try to catch her leaving or coming in just for a quick kiss or embrace, she either dismisses such by claiming to be "too busy" or aggressively obliges out of frustration. I feel like I'm not asking for much, just 1-5 seconds to take a moment and appreciate what we have is all I want, but maybe I am?

I've discussed such with her before, but we're seemingly reverting back to the same ol' sharades. Usually I'll try and wait for her to finish whatever, but even then she's sometimes like a sack of potatoes and doesn't wanna cuddle much or anything. If she ever does, it's when she's in a particular mood for such.

I've stressed to her how important intimacy is for me, but it seemingly doesn't phase her or she simply keeps forgetting (intentionally or not) and going back to what's normal and easy for her. It makes me feel unappreciated and simply a placebo that any other guy could fill in for her, though she claims otherwise and states she's madly in love with me.

What are your guys and gals opinion? Is this a normal process of long-term relationships? How can this be remedied where I'm not bothering her but she'd be able to and comfortable to show me some loving in the way I want it? Am I asking too much from her? Would more romantic gestures work? I try taking over for whatever it is she's doing sometimes (dishes, cooking, etc) which works sometimes, but generally she's usually always in a groggy mood when she's leaving or coming back home anyways.