Polls: Relationships

A month ago, me and my boyfriend ended our relationship
No contact since

He starts work around 5am
When we were together, he would call me before work everyday
So around 4 30am or 4 40am

Today, someone added my snapchat around that time.. 4 40am
This rarely happens
I usually dont give out my snapchat username to anyone

Why would anyone randonly add my snapchat at 4am?
They searched my username
Not by via quick add
So that was odd

Could it be my ex?
Or him trying to get someone to add me?

I didn’t work for 6 months, took care of myself and have about 2k saved up. FL, I bought my current condo at 110k with 3% down (conventional loan) less than 3 years ago. With everything including closing costs appraisal etc I paid around 7-8k. My unit would be worth around 150-160k now. For buying another home it’d be the same kind of loan but would be contingent upon selling my home and the realtor warned me it will be difficult because the market is competitive. Homes are selling quickly, am I better off using the money from my sale to rent instead?

If you see from our text Wednesday, he asked how I was and I just gave a thumbs up showing I’m okay. He called me while I was working today and it went to vm. I just don’t get him, he always calls at the wrong time why call me when I’m working or when he’s working he just knows no boundaries. His wording at the end of his first text today “I’m all good”, that comes across as like “I’m okay not that you care”. Agree?

They don’t want to share the same bed with you but they would like to have sex with you every day and marry you for security or to start a family with you #nolove #aromantic

As a 25 year-old woman, I've never in my life felt any attraction towards anyone (man or woman). I'm not just asexual but aromantic too. I feel little to no romantic feelings but no sexual attraction at all.

Seeing how both relationships and marriages have been ruined, is being asexual a blessing after all? After all, I don't have to worry about falling in love with Mr Wrong nor wasting my time nor being string along, etc. Would you call that a blessing?

Lets suppose your partner is a blue eyed blonde and you cheat on him with a black guy. Contraception fails and all of a sudden your in deep shit. If that baby pops out black you've got some explaining to do. And what about that ginger guy you did or that brunnette from the office party? In short you've got 9 months of worry ahead of you.

But if you only cheat with other blue eyed blonde hair guys you're a lot safer right?

By starting life I mean Living with guy, have baby. I’m 25 by end this year and next year 26. I’m empty in life and boyfriend lives with mom. I live alone and feel settled down in life. I don’t want wait til I’m 30-34 to marry and start life. I’m Ready now as I’m settled down and empty in life as I accomplished what I wanted already. I won’t be party girl til age 30 either. Im not that person. I’m a settle down women. I don’t believe you need marry to have kids either. that’s bullshit and my mom gets mad when I say that excited in her old days. She’s ignorant and innocent & don’t realize that don’t exist much in 2022