Men, is it possible to cheat on your girlfriend and still love her/want to be with her?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

A total of 34 votes were cast: 8 girls and 26 guys. See detailed results

[Espresso-Grande]

There's no correlation between love and fidelity. People cheat because they are weak. They lack willpower and have no self-control over their desires and emotions, so opportunity controls their loyalty. I'd never assume a guy won't cheat just because he loved me. I'd trust he wouldn't based on his character, who is as a person.

If you assume someone who loves you won't cheat then you'd have to also assume someone who doesn't love you will cheat. Which is totally ufounded

[Anonymous]

He won’t really want to be with her, but he’ll “want to be with her” because it’s easier or they have kids or he doesn’t want a messy divorce.

[billmunch]

Absolutely! I was with my girlfriend for 14 years and from years 7 to 10, she had a full on boyfriend which she didn't particularly try to hide from me. She would even go away on holiday with him, whereas she knew I was visiting the odd prostitute. We were both fine with it and jealousy wasn't a factor. We carried on with our normal relationship, except we were both alike in that we still wanted to each have our own private sex life outside our relationship

[Chris_7565]

Not really.
For a person to physically go and have sex with someone outside of the relationship they have to basically not care about their partner's feelings or the consequences of possibly losing them.
In my opinion that isn't really love. Love is more about caring for others and wanting their happiness, not hurting them.

[Anonymous]

Getting new vagina has nothing to do with how you feel about our partner, or how sexually satisfied we are.

The pink votes do not count, women have zero understanding of the male mind.

The blue votes saying No, have simply never had the opportunity presented to them.

[slatyb]

What someone thinks doesn't matter. Only their behavior matters. "I love you" is worthless. Loving behavior is what counts.

[SeekingVirginWife]

Did you make this question because you cheated on a good virgin man seeking for a loving wife?

[TheBigGuy9]

“Rationalization is the second strongest human drive.”


One could find a way to rationalize it, but I wouldn't believe them.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Long story short... Yes... You're probably thinking it can't be.. But it's true...

[genericname85]

sure it is but that doesn't mean you should keep him.

[Anonymous]

don't know since i haven't cheated. i haven't kissed anyone since January 2005 and hadn't dated anyone since 2005. my significant other for 4 1/2 years now is the only person i still want to be with

[baserunner611]

No way, if you in love ❤️ with person no way

[Wise4myage]

No, not in my opinion.

[RuthlessAggression]

I don't think so but that's just MY opinion

[OddBeMe]

doesn't mean you get what you want.