4.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Well the truth is , he isn’t in love with his wife or girlfriend period. if he can cheat on her , so he just loves the convenience of her especially if he goes back to her , after he cheated on her. He doesn’t hate her , he just likes the convenience of her. Cheating females’ can do the same thing to her man that she isn’t in love with , she can go out without her partner and meet someone else , have sex with them and then come home and act like nothing happened , like everything is ok , pretending she loves her man when really she doesn’t , she just loves the convenience of him , until she gets busted Cheaters are selfish people that only love themselves , they don’t know how to give the same way they want to receive , they find no wrong in their doings , it’s always someone else’s fault but never their own fault, they can’t take accountability for their own selfish actions. So yes they can claim to love their partner after they cheated , but it’s all bullshit , they just love the convenience of their partner.
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1 yHe might have feelings for her, but under my definition of love, no, as that is not seeking the better for the partner.
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827 opinions shared on Relationships topic. No. This is against human nature and people who say they love people they betrayed and cheated on are just deluded or liars. It simple, if you don't want lose someone or you don't want to destroy a relationship you have, you just don't cheat. The risk is too high and when you take that risk, has your partner and relationship with him/her not much value. Ergo: you don't love them
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1 yNo matter what some might say. No.
I don't think you can love someone and cheat on them.
You wouldn't hurt someone like that and betray their trust if you actually loved them.10 Reply
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847 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Maybe he still FEELS love for her, but he doesn’t love her the way he ought to. He doesn’t respect her as he should respect his girlfriend/wife enough not to cheat.
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1 yThis is an interesting question because it brings up what each person decides is their own love requirements. If guy or girl "A" is all for polyamory if it happens, but their partner (x) is not for it, and that's a known fact, then "A" shouldn't be in a relationship with "x" even if they claim to love the person. Person "x" will never be loved the way they want to be, knowing they're only enough IF no one else comes along. So, in my opinion, if "A" really loved "X", he/she should dissolve that relationship if want to be intimate with a new person BECAUSE they love "X", not in spite of it.
It's very possible to love more than one person deeply. It's only "cheating" if it's not ok with everyone. Polyamory is not for everyone, but I don't believe those who are good with it deserve to scorn of the monogamous world. The polyamorous people I know have all outlasted the average monogamous marriage length so far.
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1 yNo I don't believe you still love someone if you cheat on them. If you truly love someone you wouldn't go out your away to hurt or betray them.
If I love my partner, there is no way I would cheat on them. If I want to sleep around with a lots of different women, then I would stay single, that way I am not hurting anyone.
If love includes loyalty, respect, and putting the partner’s well-being first, cheating tends to show a lack of those qualities. Many people would agree that cheating undermines true love.
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1 yLike I couldn’t imagine being cheated on, my husbands effin hot and could probably bang some hot thing if he wanted to but I love sex and gave 10/10 body what’s the point? However if you’re bigger and don’t tend to your body and look good for your man, maybe… I dunno. I love looking sexy for my husband and he loves banging me. We have wed everyday most days twice a day!! It’s hot! The only time we skip is when I’m on my period and I still blow him those days. He’s got a smoking hot wife who loves to F lol he’s not gonna cheat on me and I have a smoking hot husband who loves to F I’m not gonna cheat. Just keep it simple
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1 yOf course!!! Why not? Why does love and intimacy have to be limited to one person? Why can't you love and be intimate with several people? It's already problematic enough that monogamy is so completely unnatural and contrary to our nature. Add on the fact that cheating has NOTHING to do with being unhappy with the offended spouse but EVERYTHING to do with the cheating spouse seeking novelty, ego, identity, validation, taboo, etc.
I'm always puzzled when the spouse that was cheated on says "what did I do?" That's just it, and you didn't do anything either wrong or right. It's entirely in the hands of the spouse who cheated and that spouse that cheated most likely still has very deep feelings for you. Just MHO00 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No because why would he feel like he needed another woman if he was satisfied with what he already had?
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1 yNo, a man that cheats doesn’t love either one of them otherwise he would’ve given himself time to separate both relationships and respect the woman.
20 Reply 6.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. WGAF? It doesn't matter what he thinks. It matters how he acts. Don't bother trying to understand him. Decide whether you can live with his behavior. If you can't, then tell him. If he continues, then end it.
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No, but I think the reverse can and does happen routinely, in which the woman engages in extracurricular sexual encounters while still loving her husband or boyfriend.
00 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Of course. As one can love two people at the time. Love ain't finite.
That don't make it right to betray one's partner but it exists to say it's not is just ignorance.00 Reply- 3.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
1 yIt's not a loving thing to do. A slip up in an intense situation, yes he can still love his woman.
If it's a repeated cheating then he doesn't love her.10 Reply - 904 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
1 yYes- but it doesn't really matter. You can't have partnership with loyalty, even if there IS love.
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1 yi guess so. but from the perspective of the cheated woman: i would still not say with him anyway. cause what good is a partner who loves you that you can't trust?
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1 yno, if he really loved her, he would not cheat on her PERIOD
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1 yThey can be attached to someone and still be selfish so in a way yea
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1 yI would yea. Sex is not the same as love and many guys can have sex with multiple chicks while staying in love with the same one.
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1 yProbably, that doesn't make them less of a POS though
00 ReplyPolygamy is a thing in some cultures and religions for a reason.
00 Reply3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yeah, cheating isn't necessarily xome because you fall out of love.
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1 yYes just because someone does something that's wrong doesn't mean they stop or don't love someone else anymore
00 Reply328 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Its possible because sex is physical while love is more emotional, human is not actually mono!
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m 1 ythat's not how love works... lol
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Anonymous(25-29)1 yYes but it doesn't mean she should stay with him
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1 yHe doesn’t love anyone but himself.
10 Reply 2.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I dont believe in that type of love.
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1 yYes they can. It's just a fuck to them
10 Reply6.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. He might think so but I don't think he can.
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1 yYes but it's fucked up
00 Reply 494 opinions shared on Relationships topic. To me any kind of cheating unlawful.
00 Reply460 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nopeeee
10 Reply3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nope
10 Reply657 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nope
00 Reply4.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No lol
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1 yNope, no way.
00 Reply 779 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nope
00 Reply3.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes.
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1 yNo truly
00 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. yes.
00 ReplyYesss
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