You ever get an icky feeling knowing that your SO has been in previous relationships?

[Anonymous]

😂😂😂 obviously they're gonna have a life before you most times but I don't know just thinking any it sometimes makes me 🤢😡😟😟

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[unknownforever]

I wouldn't say ick, but it pops up in my mind. My boyfriend has lots and lots of experience with many other women, but I have nada. My only experience was assault, so that also plays in my mind.
I can't hold it against him for having a past. But definitely weird that he has a tons of experience with so many woman, and here I am with nothing. I think the one thing that gets to me most is that he will be able to compare me to these other women. But that is not on him. That is just me overthinking

[Aerissa_Jade]

Not usually, but I've been with guys who had that issue with me... like uh, I had a love life before you and in fact if it had worked out, we'd never be dating.

I get it though, if someone has had ten relationships in 10 months, something seems off.

[JHNS98]

I'm not religious, so I don't find this an issue. It would be [more] difficult finding someone my age with no previous partners, finding a partner is difficult enough for me as is. Many of my friends who are my age or directly adjacent, have been in the same relationship (s) ever since ninth grade.

[NathanDavis]

doesn't really bother me, no... never has, I just see it as something normal and natural, for other people to have lived and experienced beyond, just me

and not like I spend that much time thinking about it either, lol...

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

No, I don't even think about it honestly.
I would be more ickied by a bad social or political past honestly.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I don't, I would hope they had some fun experiences before me.
My boyfriend, on the other hand, doesn't like to think about it. I'm a divorcee, but it doesn't come up in conversation anymore

[RebeccaBITex2000]

Not too worried about it, Unless they are still texting and calling

[kylee2437]

Eh not really, I am curious as to why it ended for all of them though. The next relationship I’m getting into I’m talking to the previous ex first lol

[bamesjond0069]

Not like that as long as i dont have to commit to them. Marriage or something then yeah im completely disgusted. So i learned no future to a relationship unless she's a virgin.

[Guardian45]

No, not usually. People don't come mint new out of the box! 😂

[Levin]

It's fine. Unless they've ridden too many dicks.

[QuietRunner]

I like their experience

and

knowing they are now with me

[20yearsolder]

Never crosses my mind

[Tstrbrainer]

You should be happy that he is with you now

[Asker]

Never said I wasn't

[Tstrbrainer]

Great. I guess you knew about his past before entering into the relationship, right?

[mandyfire98]

Nope. I never even think about it.

[Asker]

You don't ever think about him having sex with people before you?

[mandyfire98]

I really don't. I mean I know he definitely has but I never really dwell on that type of stuff. I guess I'm just too focused on the relationship itself. It just never bothered me.

[JoyGirl]

Nope…lol

[moonpie89]

Lmao no.