Will I get another opportunity to be a woman's very first love?

[LonelyTimes]

Back in 2020, I met a devout Catholic girl who had never even had a male friend before she met me. She never had a boyfriend before or a first love. She only had a previous crush on a guy she never was close to.

Anyways, sadly, when she met me in person the first time, she discovered I wasn't her type. My soul is crushed because she ended up marrying another guy in April who got to be her first everything.

Do you think I will have the opportunity again to find a decently attractive young woman like her that has never had her first love?

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[Anonymous]

To be someone’s first love yes I guess still possible. But to meet someone without a romantic past whatsoever, no way.

[LonelyTimes]

What do you mean by this?

[Opinion Owner]

Take me as an example, I’ve had crushed before, I even had a boyfriend back in high school and dated around after but I realize that I never fell in love with any of them. It wasn’t until I met my last ex (senior year of college) where I actually learn what love is for the first time, he was my first love. Technically I’ve had a romantic past, but I never found love until I met my ex and even though we’re broken up, we’re still pretty good friends even tho we don’t talk anymore.

So I say that it is still definitely possible for you to be their first love despite them already having a romantic past

[slatyb]

Unlikely. You're 27. You're too old to date 16-year-olds.

[Guy13]

Are you trying to brag?

[LonelyTimes]

Fuck no. I never even had a real girlfriend before. I am wanting to find another girl as mentioned above.