How can I go about being a woman's very first love?

[Almost_Incel]

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I seek a woman that has never had a romantic bond with a guy before, meaning no previous boyfriend or first love, especially from her youth.

I am wanting to us to be each other's first real relationship.

I have lost 20 pounds so far. I have been weightlifting. I have broad shoulders and a strong upper body. I am just needing to lose probably 30 more pounds and I will be more decent then.

I have my own apartment for now. Although, I am recently unemployed and looking to go back to school and get on disability in the meantime.

My personality lacks. I am often insecure and don't know how to joke much. I can laugh and be in a good mood however.

Also, do you think I can find a decently attractive woman that meets what I am looking for?

Still can happen

Unlikely to happen

Other (explain)

[RJJ33666]

Wanting to be a woman's first love is a very sweet thing to want, but having such a mindset is setting back to having any kind of romantic love. In our generation, finding a woman who has never had any love experience is almost impossible, but having love experience is not a bad thing at all. In fact, according to many surveys, most couples who get married and have a relatively better life are people who have had prior romantic experiences. Meeting other people helps you develop a proper mental image of what kind of person you want, what preferences you have and many other things according to that.

The first thing to do for you, is to build up proper confidence for yourself. As you said, you lack in personality then build it up, build your personality into something solid and start trying out new things. This can help in self-discovery and create and image of yourself for others to see. You yourself need to have a proper image of yourself for others to see so that they realize you are a good person and you might be worth dating as well

Another thing you should work on is that, you should try to meet new women, regardless of whether they have had experience or not. In that way, you will get the experience and it will help you in realizing whether you really want a woman who has had no love experience. Women , with or without experience, always have something to offer. So don't discriminate too much.

[mobiusforniner]

First, get off this site and start meeting people. Develop yourself and your interests. Find something to be PROUD of. That gives you CONFIDENCE. After i got dumped by my first girlfriend, is was depressed but I didn't let that stop me. I viewed it as OPPORTUNITY. i took up flying lessons and got my license. Got to a good point in my career... bought a house. Taught myself how to play music. By the time i was ready to hit the dating scene again, I was prime meat... i didn't even have to try... certainly didn't groan about being an incel, or whatever

[Almost_Incel]

I am strictly wanting a woman as described

[mobiusforniner]

Doesn't change my response. You assume most women are slut-driven whores. You got to get rid of that mentality, man. It's toxic and will cloud your perspective. I've met some amazing girls- some have zero experience, some are more sexually active. It didn't matter to me. They were all awesome people. I eventually met and chose a woman and I was her first- but it didn't stop me from dating or meeting other people. Live more, man. You'll be glad you did.

[bakajana]

Firstly be confident about yourself no matter what. This helped me in various aspects of my life.
Then about finding a s/o if she's the one she'll be with you no matter how you look or how you're boring, many people are into many different things so never say never.
Keep going!

[MagicCarpet1]

First research about Adolf Hitler and the Weimer Republic. You will learn the truth about Women today, and why you are truly single right now.

We live in a different generation that promotes white genocide, and destroying marriage values. Do your own research. You will learn much more, a lot of hardened truths are censored on this site. Makes you think.