The situation is this: About a month or so ago, I walked into my neighborhood Walmart and noticed a new cashier working there whom I had never seen before. The very first time I saw her, it looked like she was being trained on the register. She also has a foreign accent that I can't quite place, but I digress. I initially didn't pay her much mind until I went through self-checkout and noticed that she kept looking at me throughout my time there, but every time I would glance at her she would look away. I generally find female behavior difficult to interpret, so I've tried to not read too much into this. The thing is, she's drop dead gorgeous and I can't get her out of my head. Everytime I go into the store, she seems to take particular notice of me and appears to make a strong effort to "act natural" when I'm nearby. For example: She was greeting people normally as I walked in yesterday, but when she saw me she seemed to suddenly pretend she was whistling, then looked up at the ceiling and playfully around the store. It was the kind of wistful eye roll that people exhibit when they've suddenly seen something that has caught them off guard... this behavior confuses me, folks. I don't know what it means assuming it means anything at all. I'm in a suit most days and by most accounts I'm not a particularly bad looking guy, but I also know how scrupulous women can be about potential mates, so I'm far from being one to assume that I'm the apple of any woman's eye. What would you make of this type of behavior? Should I approach her and just see what happens?
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How's about not jumping to "mates" status right away. It's not National Geographic, it's the Walmart. Just say "HI," casually mention that you noticed her and tell her your name. She'll tell you her name an everything else will move from there. Don't freak out.
Thanks. I really appreciate it.
Want my advice on approaching women? Don’t approach women. If you do you’ll understand why I say that soon enough.
Explain please
The last woman I approached falsely accused me and served me an ex parte PPO in which I had to take to court before she could have me arrested just for being nearby on our tiny campus at college. You really wanna deal with something like that? Accusations of harassment maybe?
You’re better off single trust me I am and I’ve been single for 9 years and haven’t experienced heartache or headache or anything negative
This actually happened?
What did you say to her?
It’s not what I said it’s what she claimed I did.
I know. I'm just curious to know what was said.
It happened 7 years ago I don’t remember my counselor told me to try to forget what happened and leave it in the past but it still fucked me up
Now I try to stop men from jumping into something that’ll just destroy their lives like I almost had mine destroyed