Straight forward or is it creepy?

[ironmidget]

Ok so in my younger days I could flirt and had charm. I then got married to a female narcissist. She totally destroyed my confidence and any flirting skills I had. I am super shy and intimidated to approach women. I need advice. Is it attractive to be straight forward and be more blunt in flirting?
From my understanding women tend to like more subtle flirting but this never works for me. I always get that shit wrong. Or I come off boring. Help.

[Soulfist]

Try language classes. You need to not make getting a girlfriend your main objective.

Just know it will happen organically. How long it will take? I don't know. It might be 3-5 years who knows. Just focus on learning a language or going back to college to get a better job and networking with people to help you advance in your career.

Learn an interment. Just focus on a hobby or schooling. When you make a woman your entire objective and you are only focused on her, then that's what makes you seem creepy.

[ironmidget]

Ok that seems legit. Thank you

[Guy13]

www.meetup.com. Go until it clicks again.

[Unusualq26]

I'm going be honest strait forward I believe the way to go. However how forward you can be depends on how attractive u are. The more attractive u are the more forward u cam be amd less it's perceived as creepy. can I ask are u still married?

[ironmidget]

I guess I just need to not be as timid. No I am not. Thank goodness. Best thing I have ever done was leaving her. It was a nightmare.

[Unusualq26]

Well wish you all the luck. I would just suggest not being shy but having the main focus on being on being the best you. Don't make your main focus girls amd ull actually get more in the end

[BlueIguana98]

Be straight forward eventually it’ll feel more natural