I’m getting creepy vibes off this guy. Should I go with my gut instinct?

[Anonymous]

So basically I’ve met this guy off online dating. I was having difficulty with another guy blackmailing me to post my photos online and message all my friends lies about me, so I asked this other guy to help me. He got the guy who was blackmailing me off my case, but since then he’s been really forward with me.

he keeps asking me out but I don’t want to go out with him or date him right now, and he’s constantly messaging me every day. If I don’t reply on Facebook he messages me on WhatsApp or Instagram. He messages me every second of the day and also when I respond to his message he comes online straight away. I’m not interested in him but because he’s done me a huge favour and got the creepy guy off my case, I feel obligated to keep speaking to him, otherwise I feel like he might get angry/aggressive.

are these creepy vibes and should I follow my gut instinct?

[jaybee281]

He did you that favor because he liked you or maybe even loved you from the start (yes there are people like that) - These were his intentions from the start - Rescuing you from your problems so you could finally find your knight and all of this love talk is because he loves you - It is genuine for him yet not real because of the fact that he thinks you're out of his league - To answer your question yes these are creepy vibes - To get rid of him just act like you're always sad and tired and don't give him the vibe that you want him to comfort you - Make it a statement - You're going through shit you're sad it's not the time to have fun for you you don't feel like talking to anyone - and eventually as he keeps on talking about hanging out with you tell him "can't you see how preoccupied I am? The last thing I'd be looking for right now is a relationship" - And tell him that you know he wants that from you but that you can't right now and will tell him when you feel like you can - and never talk to him ever again..

[Anonymous]

You've exchanged one type of creepy guy, for another. Follow your gut instinct. He may have known how to deal with the other guy because they are the same...

[btbc92]

Listen to your gut. ALWAYS. If your attracting these men that means you seek attention and getting the wrong attention. You need legal protection and some common sense. You owe nobody an explaining of where you are, what you are doing, and when and how. This guy just targeting you and it sounds like all your getting is just creeps and stalkers. The energy and loneliness you have are attracting bad men. Cut the guy off, period. Your not interested and you should have told him that. You lack boundaries and assertiveness. Tell the guy NO. Start doing that. And if you feel unsafe, call the COPS.

[vintagegirl90]

These are creepy vibes indeed. I’ve had similar it was after I stopped replying that he did stop it. I think it’s about time you block him and tell him that you’ve had enough, you need to feel safe! Don’t let him continue to harass you like this, it’s scary and seriously not healthy. It’s very worrying if he doesn’t leave you alone, you need to speak up.

[YaBoiJacob]

Yes, if you don't feel comfortable go with your instincts, these types of relationships usually don't end well. plus if your afraid someone is going to get angry if you cut off communication, confide in someone you trust so they know the situation, and then cut the guy off, you should not have to put up or deal with someone because you're afraid they'll get angry, that is bad mojo.

[Anonymous]

Yes you should follow your gut. Explain him that you appreciate the favor he did for you and that you’d like to pay him back... by literally PAYING him cash maybe. This way you acknowledge that you owe him and now you’re paying your debt. If he refuses cash then consider your debt payed, because you at least tried to level up. If he refuses that’s on him.

[Thatasianlove16]

Bro especially since he just got through it with someone else being creepy keep with your gut feeling because he’s basically doing the same thing in different ways. It’s like he expects you to date him because he did something good for you

[stupidgrls]

Happened to me too. Just because he did you a huge favour doesn't mean you have to tolerate his bs. You never promised him anything. GET RID OF HIM.

[missy52]

How much of your information do they have? You need to cut contact with him but in a smart way so he doesn't come after you.

[EmilyGreen99]

Yeah. He must have body language that is subconsciously telling you something negative about him.
Trust your instincts

[spartan55]

Yeah, like I said the first time you posted this... BLOCK HIM.

[Avicenna]

Well, have you told him you don't want to date him?

[OddBeMe]

Contact each platform and get him banned. Take screenshots of the messages. Perhaps even open a police file on him. Unfort it’s par for the course for guys on line. Sorry about that.

[TallAnon]

That sounds obsessive, you should probably put an end to this because while you are grateful, you do reciprocate his feelings.

[TallAnon]

Do not*

[Twalli]

It sounds like he feels you committed to something with him.

[Anonymous]

He sounds very weird and this is not normal behavior, so block him on all those sites and move on.

[Anonymous]

I can get rid of the second guy if you move in with me

[Opinion Owner]

Just Kidding. You should stay of the internet

[JosyJosy]

Do you consider what he's doing... normal?

[dudeinohio]

You've asked this question 4 times now.

[dudeinohio]

Yes... totally creepy

[dudeinohio]

Yes.. totally creepy.

[Gedaria]

Yes , always the best to follow them..