Polls: Relationships

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I am going to be called a sicko for this but i dont care.

I have a body pillow with a female character drawn on it (nothing explicit) and since I got it I sleep very good. Body pillows are super comfortable, super soft and they give me a sense of security at night and my back pains are also gone. I also fall asleep easier and faster with it and my slumbers are deeper too!
To me it's benefits are life-changing.

But I wouldn't go as far as setting up a dinner date with my body pillow or going out with it. I just keep it at my bed and sleep with it or I cuddle it when I feel I need to get a hug.

Oh yeah - I never had a girlfriend but nobody knows, that I have a body pillow. Hence me asking this question.

We were together for 4 years and we decided to take a break a few weeks ago because everything was getting to be too much for us. We were going to get back together but yesterday I found out that she slept with another guy while we were broken up. Even worse, it was literally just 6 days (!!) after we ended things. I love her but I don't think I can be with someone who could do that. Do you think I should get back together with her or just forget about her and move on?

Is this just a total lie and a cover up? I know this has happened to many people besides me lol, just be honest people.

Is it essential to you to share food off of the same utensile at times as part of the intimacy of a relationship?

Like some girls seem to want to share eating food off of the same spoon and fork. Is that important to do? Does it gross you out a bit?

Would you rather be the person who got the girl in her late teen's/early 20's for relationship when she is not looking for anything super serious or the person who got the girl when she is ready to settle down and get married (late 20's-30+) and she most likely wants you to put a ring on her.

Example

Girl on left-Teens/early 20's. Girl on the right late 20's. 30+ range.

From this male gager's quote: "You'd be the first girl to ever admit to this. Before someone calls me out like some have with you, men love pretty much unconditionally. Other than not getting sex or getting along with the girl, there's generally nothing else that will make a guy change their mind about a girl. Turn the roles around, and think of how many things can affect a woman's love, it goes beyond sex and getting along. Guys definitely experience love very differently and more passionate than girls do, specially the younger they are. That's not to say you won't get hurt along the way by a guy, or that there aren't guys who play with women. But generally speaking, guys get easier attached to girls, it's a male trait and one girls shouldn't exploit but use it for making good/solid relationships. It's admirable that you recognize this trait, to be honest."

So let say a guy with no limbs (hands or feet) comes to the sperm bank wanting to donate some sperm.


He obviously can't jerk himself off, so he needs assistance. Suppose a female nurse is asked to help him out.

However, she is in a relationship with someone. Would it be considered cheating if she jacks off another male as part of her job?

Option 1 (SINGLE MOM) - Single mothers. They have 1 or more kids. Their kids are their number one priority, followed by them and then the father. You come in fourth. Part of her reason for picking you might be because she is looking for a provider and/or possible father figure for her kids. If you choose to take part in a relationship you might form strong bond with her kid and grow attached. However, you will be constantly reminded by her and the kid if you over step that you are not the father. In addition, there is always the possible threat that she might kick you to the curb if the father and her rekindle and get back together so they can be a family.



OPTION 2 (Women looking to settle down) - She's gone through her bad boy phase, party girl phase, traveled, had exciting sex with different men, ONS, as well as, been in a couple of relationships that didn't last and is now looking to settle down with someone who is willing to commit. Usually women in this age range can be anywhere from their late 20's to women in their 30's.

Part of her reason for her liking you might not be 100% because she total lust after you. Her attraction for you might also partially come from the fact that you have a stable job, are willing to commit and essential can provide her a stable life and environment to raise children. Sex life is more tamed, less exciting than what she had with men in the past and tends to become less frequent the longer your relationship progresses. As a couple you also tend to do boring stuff such as going to IKEA to purchase furniture on a weekend and it's less exciting compared to relationship in early 20's that people experience during college/high school.

OPTION 3 (Remain single forever) - Stay in perpetual bachelorhood and never get into a relationship. Do whatever you like to do for fun, travel the world and have the occasional ONS if that's your thing. If you can't get girls at all then use escorts for sex.