Who puts more effort into relationships on average: Men or Women?

[Anonymous]

Men

Women

[AleDeEurope]

Well it's obviously men. We're expected to do absolutely everything in the beginning stages, from asking them out, to paying, to texting and calling... then when you're officially in a relationship you gotta plan the dates, buy them cute stuff, and do all sorts of romantic things so that she doesn't get paranoid about you not being into her, but what does she do? Almost nothing that requires much effort.

Women want dominant men, that really is the only thing you need to know, to know who puts more effort. Obviously it's gonna be the dominant one, not the submissive, because the submissive "kinda" tags along., like they expect the dominant one to do everything.

[Browneye57]

Gosh, hilarious pollsters huh?

Oh, and quit it with the disney-dream bullshit wishes. Just deal with the real deal - that guy you're dating - let him be who he's going to be.

[Anonymous]

I think maybe men put more effort into it at the very beginning, but then once they're secure that they got the girl, a lot of guys stop putting as much effort. Women put in more effort long term.

[t_time]

my boyfriend and I both put in a lot of effort it's not one sided

[Cruciatusdeatheater]

Both. It's not one sided. However, you will get on occasion those relationships where maybe the female is trying her best to keep her apathetic boyfriend satisfied, or maybe a guy is trying to keep his high maintenance girlfriend happy. Ya know?

[DanReynolds]

Lmao it's obviously men. They ask out, pay for the dates and its fairly well known men spend more money on valentines day for women than women do for men.

[mattmanyah]

I think its an equal but different effort that each side puts in to make it work

[spencify]

From my observation, men put more effort to get into a relationship, and women put more effort to maintain a relationship.

[Walrus_au]

it is as varied as their are people who might answer the question.

[ASEXY]

From my observations, it seems like men put more effort into relationships...

[Anonymous]

Women, because what do men actually do? Lol fuck and that's about it

[DanReynolds]

Men ask out, pay for dates, on average spend more per a year on women than women do on men. What do women do?

[Anonymous]

It's men, of course. In terms of gender role, men are forced to be the "gentlemen", and have to do the initiation to ask girl out, plan everything, pay for everything.

[disgustingweebtrash]

Men put more effort to get into it. This is clear already who puts more effort.

[DiegoO]

Having more effort on someone or something don´t relye on gender.

[DudeManBro_20]

It depends on the people in the relationship, you can't generalize.

[sodababe]

Haha them poll results 😂

[Kuraj]

The denial with females is strong with this one.

[Anonymous]

Her... at least in my friends relationships.

[Blitzkrieger]

We have to initiate everything.

[Anonymous]

Definitely women.

[cupidkisses]

women