Is it cheating if you talk to other guys while seeing someone?

[Anonymous]

yes

no

maybe

it depends ( if so comment what on)

[mellifluous_girl]

Define 'talk'. Do you mean 'talk' as in casual conversations, or 'talk'as in flirting? Casually chatting with guys or friends is fine, but flirting is kind of like cheating emotionally- you're inclining yourself emotionally to another while already in an exclusive relationship, that's cheating.

[Eliza23]

I can agree with that because I was talking to my friend Isaac Pelland for a little bit last night during the JV boys 🏀 game. I saw him, so I said,"Hey Isaac." He said,"Hey." I said,"Good luck tonight and happy late birthday because I didn't get a chance to tell you on Wednesday." He said,"Thanks." I high fived him with my left hand and he high fived me back with his left hand. I hope my friend Jordi doesn't get mad at me for talking to Isaac and last night at the JV boys 🏀 game I should've told Isaac what Jordi's calling me.

[TiffyPuff]

Have you promised to be exclusive with each other?

If you have, then it's cheating. If you haven't, then it isn't.

And if you haven't but you feel like it is, then that means you probably like him and should talk to him about being exclusive.

:)

[Goodnightcharlie]

I think talking is fine as long as there is no inappropriate conversation. I also think if you start to have feelings then all communication should stop. It's just putting yourself in a position that increase the chances for deeper feelings to develop.

[MazeOfLove]

From a relationship coaching lens, there is a such thing (and it's fairly common) as emotional cheating. If a woman is having regular discussions, no--it's not cheating. If they're flirting, talking with romantic innuendo, than yes--it's cheating.

[medieval]

I would think it depends on the intent of the "talking". Are you lining up a new boyfriend? Then of course. Are you talking about school work? It's no different to talking to girls

[Eliza23]

It's not cheating if you're friends with the guy. For example, I was talking to my friend Isaac Pelland for a little bit last night. I had seen him, so I said,"Hey Isaac." He said,"Hey." I said,"Good luck tonight and happy late birthday because I didn't get a chance to tell you on Wednesday." He said,"Thanks." I got a high five from him. I high fived him with my left hand and he high fived me back with his left hand.

[Anon34567]

Okay so my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend, not physically but he signed up for her OF and talked to her the whole 9 months I was pregnant I tried to forgive him but I can’t and I flirted/dirty talked with someone else far far away. What should I do? I found him cheating.. he hid it from me

[samhradh_leannan]

It depends on how you're talking to them. Talking as friends should be okay. Talking with any sort of romantic or sexual intention probably crosses the line.

[ImACowgirl]

Depends on if they're definitely the one you wanna do end the rest of your life wit. If it's just someone you're dating and probably not going anywhere then no.

[Chrysis]

Just talking? No.
Actually, my partner & I would have HUGE problems if he didn't want me talking to other guys, most of my friends are male as is my bff.

[Kitten967]

Depends if you talk as friends or you flirt and do things you wouldn't want your partner doing to other women.

[Exterminatore]

Depends on the meaning of "seeing someone". Is this a committed relationship? Then I'd consider it to be unfaithful. If not then no. It also depends on the definition of talking.

[Asker]

a tad bit of flirting?

[Exterminatore]

Is the relationship committed? If so I can't define it as cheating as no physical contact has taken place. What I would define it as if that's the status of the relationship is just plain old unscrupulous behavior. If you were my girlfriend and I found out I'd very likely dump you.

[Wonderer89]

Depends what the conversations are about. If you would be uncomfortable having that discussion in front of your partner then chances are yes

[Dtherockhaugen]

It depends. If they're just friends, then it is no big deal, but if you see flirting, then deffinitely.

[rxchl02]

It depends if you're talking in a sexual, flirty, or romantic way. if you're just friends and it's purely platonic than it's fine

[oVENGANCEo]

If your just having a casual conversation no. If you have any intention of seeking more then friend then yes

[x_Pretty_x]

not if they are ONLY friends. if your sexting, then it's cheating.

[Asker]

I'm still in a sense single aren't I? I'm not this guys girlfriend so am I cheating? when not committed to anything really so?

[Anonymous]

If you ask yourself this then yes it's because if not you wouldn't even think of it. If he was just a friend and nothing else you wouldn't ask yourself this.
Also if you lie to your partner about it (if he ask about it) then yes you have cheated.

[Anonymous]

It would depend on how defined your relationship is. If you've said if your exclusive or not, how long you've been together, and whether the guys you're talking to are interested in you/you in them.

[Mynameisnottolong]

Regular discussions no. Romantic stuff (thats not suggestions on what you can do for your guy) yes

[SunnyCaliGirl]

If you are seeing someone it just means you are talking and not in a "real relationship" with them yet

[lareina05]

depends on topic of conversation and how you are talking to someone

[catelyntje]

Well it depends what do you discuss with these other guys

[d2796]

depends... is it potential partner "talk" or just being friendly talk.

[msbreeable]

it depends, if there's all kind of flirting and dirty talk going on and they do it on a daily basis or everytime they see each other, then I would say yes it is cheating. Otherwise, no.

[Anonymous]

It depends on whether either of the people has romantic feelings for the other

[guy366]

if you're honest about who you are "talking" with so the person you're dating doesn't feel insecure. if you think you have to lie about it then yes it is cheating

[coachTanthony]

Stupid is more likely.

[GerardXP]

as long as its friendly and not flirting, so make it clear your with someone, and there you can have all the male friends you want

[Anonymous]

Talk to? No. Flirt with? Pushing boundaries. Kiss? Over the boundary. Get in bed with? Oh yer ass is gettin' dumped.

[OrionH]

Depends Define what you talk about with other guys.

[Anonymous]

"Talk" as in how you would talk to anybody or romantically?

[GraveTruth]

No, in order of cheating you have to cheat.

[CapnHawk]

Depends what you are talking to them about.

[Anonymous]

Talking isn't cheating

Fucking is cheating

[Imhotep99]

Talking isn't cheating. Flirting and sex is.

[jacquesvol]

Certainly NOT.

[Dred1614returns]

Of course not

[Anonymous]

Talk or fuck?