Polls: Relationships

Rank them in order (typically) from 1 to 3 (1 being most emotionally painful and 3 being least).

Unrequited love: That girl/guy you had an intense crush on that you always dreamed about that you either barely knew, were either friends with, or at most managed to go on a couple dates with and then got rejected or friendzoned

Breakup after a short-term relationship: a breakup after a 1-year or less relationship.

Breakup after long-term relationship: a breakup after a 1+ year relationship.

Divorce: we all know.

Her ex bf constantly calls, I tell her I don't like it. She says "We're just friends, he has a gf; I can be friends with whoever I want; It's sad I have to end a friendship because of your blind jealousy"

She goes to her hometown. I call him and say she's my gf and to respect that. He tells me why he dumped her and doesn't want her.

My gf texts me "YOU can't CONTROL WHO IM FRIENDS WITH" I tell her the things he said about her. She gets mad at him. He screen shot their texts so I would end it with her.

Over the 2 years we've been together she's texted him "I miss you" "come visit me" every few months.

When we got together she told him "A guy I've been dating asked me to be his gf and I said yes. I wish things were different but I'm trying to be happy"

When she first got to her hometown she says "I dreamed I got to see you but then you left and I was sad" he says "Ive been dreaming about you too since you said you were coming to town"

I have a bouquet of flowers delivered to her parents house, she says she loves me and she's going to bed. She then texts him to "come over to hang out and smoke weed"

The next day she texts him and says "You made me feel uncomfortable so it was a factor. I care about you deeply but I have someone. Sometimes emotions can be ravaging."

The next day he says "Your bf called me, I'm gonna assume that us being friends is an issue" She says "No" and he says "Im not going to stop being friends unless thats what you want. Your bf will never be comfortable with that and by talking with him you add another level to this that is not positive" She says "we can't be friends you're dragging me down with you and cusses him out for talking bad about her to me"

She told me "they have a complex friendship that I couldn't understand" that her dream texts were "innocent nostalgia" she lied about having him over since "I would be mad" She said "he made a move and she kicked him out immediately"

I dont know what to believe

Simple question. Is unrequited love or a break-up worse in your opinion.

I'm sure a break-up is worse to a lot of people, especially when it's you that gets dumped when you think things were going so well. But for me, I think it's unrequited love. because you never find out what could've been.

I was talking to this girl I like for 4 months and thought there was something more between us, but she may have just confirmed there isn’t. She’d been "too busy with schoolwork" to see me the past 5 weeks, and I was kind of getting annoyed by it. Wednesday night I was asking her if she’d be free to hang out with me this weekend, but she said kept saying she didn’t know. I told her “I guess I just won’t ask then” and she must of not liked that since she immediately went to bed when I said it. Anyway, here are our messages from the following 2 days.

Thursday night:
https://i.imgur.com/j6Kmtz4.jpg

Friday afternoon:
https://i.imgur.com/F7CpDni.jpg

I never responded to that last text on Friday , because I feel like it confirmed that she doesn't have feelings for me. So it’s now been over 2 days of no communication, which is rare for us. I still really like her and still hope we can be something in the future, but I’m not sure if that’s even possible now.

Also while overthinking all of this, I realized that I probably friendzoned myself by never kissing her or flat-out telling her I like her. Both seemed like bad ideas before, considering how weird it would have been due to her being shy/socially awkward, but I probably wouldn’t be in this mess if I had just manned up and made my intentions perfectly clear at the start.

Anyway, I’ve been asking for advice about this since Friday , and gotten a million different responses. I put the most basic ones in the poll, but please comment anything not listed/specified. Also, feel free to message me or ask for more details

I really don't have much to offer. There's been girls who fall in love with me because of my humor and I can always entertain and apparently I'm a delightful gentleman but they always find someone better while in the middle of dating. Is it typical for girls to walk away from guys like me? I'm always surprised cause I've dated all sorts of girls and it's mind boggling now. I'm thinking that maybe a girl who is more concerned with working than having some "Everyday must be awesome" ideas is right for me. I want to be able to meet up with this girl to hang out and just do simple things cause for me that's a real relationship.

Would you date someone who is a furry? (For these questions let's say you are in a committed relationship and both love each other very much)
1. If so would you watch furry movies (example - Disney's Robin hood)/read furry webcomics (example - TwoKinds) with them because you love them and it would mean a lot, or would you not do it because it doesn't interest you?
2. Would you have sex with ears or a tail on (neither of you wear a full suit)?
3. Would someone being a furry prevent you from marring them?
4. Would you go to a furry convention with them, even if they wear a full fursuit (you don't have to wear anything you just go to be supportive)
I have been wondering about this for a while now. This is for both guys and girls to answer. Would you?

I really love my girlfriend's personality. Its everything that I want in a partner. I've been with her for almost 2 years but for the past year or so I've found her making out and sleeping with other guys. Since she's very outgoing and nice (confused with flirty) everyone tends to end up liking her. I don’t want to leave her but she's cheated so much on me already :( can't even count how many times she has.

I think the first time she cheated was when we went to a party, got a little buzzed. She hopped on guys shoulders all throughout the party. Later that night one of the guys she was being flirty with ended up having sex. My friend yelled at me to come over in the room and stop her and so I did. I asked her what the hell she was thinking! She was very sorry and gave me the excuse of “I get so pressured into things”.

Another time I found out she was seeing another guy temporarily because she felt he needed “the help” to get back on his feet. They had sex all the time. After she quit seeing him she admitted she did like the sex but was manipulated by him into thinking it was okay. That was during a time I was on meds that lowered sexual drive.

Countless other times where she was making out with randoms and hooking up with guys in school she had crushes on. I was so disappointed we took breaks from each other. Whos knows who she slept with during the breaks. She comes back everytime saying she doesn’t want nobody else. I feel so used and betrayed by her. She was the first girl I've ever had a relationship with. So far its left a bitter sour taste in my mouth and I hate it and makes me sad. I love her though and have so many great memories (known each other for 4 years), its hard to let go.

What should I do? Resolve the issue, talk it over with her so she won't cheat no more?
Or leave her, move on and find someone who won't cheat on me?

My SO wants to put make up on me. She has for a while, and said it would only be eye liner. I told her I would for hot chocolate and a back massage, and she agreed... But. I feel like I'm too submissive and that she doesn't really respect me. I give her everything she wants and if I argue she treats me like the bad guy, and tells me I'm over controlling. I don't feel like she respects me and I feel this would just belittle me to her more. What do you GaGers think?