My bf gave me a "dead leg" in both sides of my thigh as a little "joke" it's been five hours since I saw him and I'm still in pain?

[Anonymous]

I was at my boyfriends house and he was telling me about this game he used to do with his friends
so he goes "I'll give you a dead leg" and I'm like "what the fuck is a dead leg" and he literally smashed my left and right thigh with his knee and I fell to the ground crying and he's like "get up bitch " and I'm like "no I can't walk im in so much pain" since leaving his house I tried to do a simple task of picking up my shoes off the floor and that was a mission. I had trouble reaching down because I was STILL in pain :(
I told my friend about it and she said I should break up with him. I don't know what to do

Is this really something worth breaking up for? Also, do you know anything to help with my muscle pain ?
(poll included to quickly submit your thoughts)

Don't break up with him over that

Leave your bf :( I wouldn't accept what he did to you

[truthbeknown]

Holy Shit! That is absolutely the stupidest thing I have heard in a long time. What a total fuck head! Stupid douche bag. Your leg will be sore for a few days and will have a good bruise. He basically assaulted you! Stupid stupid stupid! No man should ever do this. He obviously has no issue with hitting women. Red flag big time. This may be an indication he has no respect for you and could hit you again. If he thinks hitting you and causing you pain is funny then he is fucked in the head. This is not someone I would want to be with. As for your leg, ice it and then put something like Rub A535 on it.

[Asker]

I can't believe there will be a bruise :( he's such a fucking asshole
Thanks for your help

[BertMacklinFBI]

he gave you a dead leg on both legs? hahaa. this sounds corny as fuck but just tell him its not cool. the pain should subside within 2-3 days depending on how your body heals. you might get a bruise if you bruise easily.

[Asker]

I do bruise easily :(

[BertMacklinFBI]

you'll have purplish spots then lol. it'll be a funny story when people ask you got you got them but tell your bf putting you in pain ain't a way to a gal's heart. unless you're into it.

[Asker]

I'm defs no into it and it's not funny

[flushednative]

I mean, getting a little physical as way of being playful is fine but if you aren't into it and blatantly show you are hurt then his reaction was not cool... Like what kind of boyfriend says "Get up bitch" to his girlfriend. If he accidentally hurt you while playing around then that's fine... His reaction should make you question what type of person he is.

[SammyGurl]

That is so major stupid!! What does he use for brains. I would leave him for not being able to control himself, and for telling you to "Get Up Bitch!!" Just so not called for especially when he put you on the ground.

[bthomas89]

Definitely let him know it wasn't cool be serious. This is actually domestic violence. He sounds like an abuser and this is a clear red flag. I have been in 2 abusive relationship and this is the beginning

[lumos]

Fucking asshole. Dump him.

[HorrorFan]

He purposely hurt you and then said 'get up, bitch'? I mean... why would you tolerate that?

If I accidentally hurt a girlfriend, I'd be apologizing profusely.

If I knew a guy that did this to his girlfriend, I'd tell him that I used to play a game with assholes called "getting punched in the face" and tell him that we're about to play.

[Jager66]

I think you are dating someone from the shallow end of the gene pool.

[RasmusAiken]

Thinking this was a "joke" is maybe forgivable on some planet. His reaction 'and he's like "get up bitch " ' is not forgivable. Just. Get. Out.

[tmac725]

Time to find a man and not a little boy who acts like a moron.

[Mesonfielde]

How do you guys end up dating people like this?

I always found this so weird.

[Creeper1o1]

Don't leave him it was just a joke. Give him a warning though let him know your not cool with it and for him not to do it no more.

[Michael_Rc46]

No no no. Run away. Run away and never go back.
Yeah leave him

[Anonymous]

Yes you should break up with him, but first I would probably stomp on his dick for payback.

[Azara]

I was out the door at " get up bitch"

[jmmmfi]

Get up bitch wtf? Leave him.

[Anonymous]

Why is this even a question? Break up with him.

[blondfrog]

He is an idiot break up with him