Guys, Is he hurting too?

Sorry, I know nobody here can answer for this guy. I’m just trying to get an idea of what goes through a guy’s mind when he breaks up with a woman. I met him on Facebook dating. We only dated for a short time (a month), but given the communication and text messages between us, it looked like it was going to be serious. This is the same guy that I’ve been posting about lately. Every morning he was texting me “good morning beautiful” and sending me one cute/sweet text after another throughout the day (I always responded and even sent him the “good morning handsome” texts if he didn’t text me first). We went out three times and were talking about spending a whole day together, and after our last date I called in to work the next day after the date ended late (we didn’t have sex but we did make out). Out of nowhere, he texts me that he wants “time” and then the next day I ask him to clarify how much “time” he wants and he breaks it off with me, telling me that I texted him too much while he was working (I texted him at the same frequency he texted me at and was unaware that it was a problem because he never communicate that to me). He was very cold and rude and we got into a fight after ward and he told me to “please move on”, then I said “ok fine, I’ll find another man” and we both said “have a nice life, bye”. This was about a week ago, so today for shits and gigs I go into Facebook dating and see he blocked me. I was hurting about a week ago over this, was starting to feel better and then felt awful again as that solidified it. I guess I’m just wondering if he’s hurting as much as I am after all the cute/sweet messages he sent, but given how things ended and what his stance was towards the end, I’m highly doubting it. Men, how does breaking up with a lady affect you, especially if it was only a short term relationship? Is he hurting as much as me?

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8 mo
I’m sorry, I shouldn’t ask about this particular guy. I meant to ask if men hurt in general when they are the dumpers and it just segued into asking about him alone because I started talking about my own pain.
Guys, Is he hurting too?
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