I cheated on my boyfriend with his neighbor twice what do you guys think should I tell him?

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so my boyfriend broke his phone and did not have one for a month so his friend talked to me while my boyfriend was gone and he seemed to be nice and well one thing led to another i had sex with him twice behind my boyfriends back its been two months since this happened i feel guilty but im in love with my boyfriend and it would break my heart to tell him by the way im pregnant with my boyfriends baby what should i do

BamLife · Accepted Answer

So what I hear is that your boyfriend couldn't talk to you so you talked to his friend? lol he couldn't entertain you so you jumped ship, but just jumped ship for a couple times right? At least you own that you did it and did it behind his back. I find it hard to believe that you are just NOW realizing that it would hurt him because it wasn't just a one time thing. Not that once isn't bad enough, but you did it a second time. You're in love with your boyfriend? really? when did you realize this before or after the affair? smh NOPE!! you own it and you tell him the full 100% truth about what YOU did. If he leaves, which is what I would do and never have anything to do with you ever again, then you own that too. If he decides for whatever reason to stay with you. You make up for your mess up for a long time. Here's what else I see... you cheated not once but twice... and you aren't worried about how heart broken HE will be over it all... I hear and see you saying "it would break my heart to tell him" seems to me you're a selfish person and as long as you get what YOU want and it's not painful then life is good. I think HE deserves better from a woman that loves him, because you do not love him. You love yourself!!

BertMacklinFBI · Accepted Answer

ill try to answer this seriously for a change;

the fuck d00d. you just committed the deal breaker to like 99.999% of the human population. what do you think your chances are of keeping him around? you can slide it under the rug and solve your immediate problems but how long can you dish it for? and what if your bf's friend wants more or uses that information to blackmail you, you don fucked up (obviously). for fear of being used by the shithead, (im calling him a shithead because he fucked his best friends girlfriend carrying her boyfriend's child) you should come clean and discuss and accept whatever comes next. im sure he will try to be rational since you're pregnant with his child. keyword: try

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't understand how people say they "love" their significant other, yet they cheat? That's not LOVE! How the heck do you feel guilty if you cheated twice? What? The first time wasn't enough? I feel bad for your bf, he should dump you and his "friend" and find himself someone better. That's nasty..

lerzygirl · Accepted Answer

I feel bad for your bf. He trusted you and you broke It twice. If you really love him you would not have cheated on him. It seems to me you love the neighbor more.

PanaBella · Accepted Answer

emmmm you sure thats your bf's baby? and yes, tell him. Its better for him to find out through you instead of through a DNA test or by the neighbor.

madhatters4 · Answer

tell him. you dishonored him and yourself by cheating on him. do something right and make up for it by at least being honest with the guy. let him then decide if he wants to be in the relationship... if you truly love him you'll show some respect for him and not perpetuate the lie further

1GuyOpinion · Answer

Tell him and hope he forgive you.  You had sex with his friend not ONCE, but TWICE? God damn have some self-control girl.

hayhurst · Answer

So you cheated twice and on top of that, while you're carrying his baby (who knows it's even his)?

I hope he takes a paternity test right after you confess. Either way, he's going to find out since it's with his neighbor he did it with TWICE. If it's his child, then I feel sorry for the poor baby who doesn't deserve growing up in such a disgusting situation.

Anonymous · Answer

How girls like you end up with a boyfriend, I'll never understand. Confess of course, jeez. Poor guy.

gobsmacked3 · Answer

You cannot say you are in love with your bf when you are banging someone else Hopefully he kicks you to the curb, which you deserve

Anonymous · Answer

You sure its your bf baby? I smell a Jerry Springer show in the makes.

thelanatellama · Answer

You need to tell him. Unless you tell him, the guilt will build up to a point where you can't be around each other.

chrisbigman · Answer

You weaved your own web, and these two got caught in it. For his sake, cut your boyfriend down so he can be free. Shame on you for being a slut to your boyfriend.

datgirl · Answer

You're a bitch. Break up with him. NOW. And too bad you shouldve thought about his feelings before you had sex with your bf's neighbor. I don't feel bad for you.

JosefK · Answer

tell him you were about to have a wee but you backed into his neighbour by accident and.. oh my god , he had his dick out... and next thing you know...
.. its a bit far fetched I know.. but its the best I could do...

Prof_Don · Answer

Oh stop it. You don't love your boyfriend as much as you THINK you do.  I say tell him.

Anonymous · Answer

A girl in love, would not have sex with another man

Anonymous · Answer

You got a hot friend? Bring her in for a threesome. When she leaves and its just you too explain it to him

jmmmfi · Answer

girls like you are why i stay single

CHARismatic110 · Answer

:sigh: Tell him and deal with the consequences.

ShutUpAndSuckMe · Answer

Stop wastin' his time n' tell him.

PeachSunset · Answer

Wowww, you're low.

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