Polls: Relationships

When the body acts out of reflex, the individual has no control over it because it is the Subconscious mind acting in that moment. Sometimes in that State you'd even protect the person you never thought you would. But only realise it once you're out the danger zone. Or Red zone... With that said if you were to save one person from a dangerous situation.. who do think you'd unconsciously Save

Growing up, I never liked sharing the same towel, glass nor utensils someone was using at the moment. I don't share from anyone, not even from my parents nor brother. Or if someone couldn't their food; I don't eat it either.

So yeah if I were in a relationship then we would have our separate water bottles, soaps, different towels. That's my only trait. Would this be a deal-breaker for you?

If I'm making soap and you get a soon to taste it, don't place the spoon back on the pot; wash it.

So I've asked the men who the most important woman in their lives were and they've Voted their daughter, now I'm asking women the same question... Who the number one Man in your life?

• Your older brother when you guys were kids
• Your husband or Partner
• Your Sons because they're still small and need a nurturing hand.

• You had a loving Older Sister that that helped Raised you.
• You are now married with a loving wife.
• You have Daughters

Some people get upset if their partner doesn’t post them, and others don’t want to be posted or don’t care either way.

Personally I don’t post my partner and he doesn’t post me, we don’t share each other or our relationship online. It’s what works best for us as we’re private people.

My boyfriend woke up pissed from a nap because he said I died in his zombie apocalypse dream for being dumb and lacking any survival skills… It got me thinking whether or not we will survive if a zombie apocalypse were to happen. As an introvert and a home body, I feel like I have a decent chance. Plus my boyfriend had military training so I’m sure he’ll keep us alive. I just hope that we won’t get in too many petty fights because he gets stressed easily under pressure lol.

Do you think you and your partner would survive though?

Just the question as you see fit to answer ⬆️

The poll question applies to if you’ve ever been in love.

but if you want to expand on what you think the difference Or if you think there’s a difference at all, between, “in love” and “to love”, feel free 🤝

I like I’m sure most of you see gimmicks constantly about how to get a partner keep a partner make a partner happy make sure they don’t stop loving you, blah, blah, blah blah blah blah blah. I think it’s all really overcomplicated.

in my opinion, If you’re good to yourself and good to your partner (something you can’t exactly prepare for or no until you get to know that person, specifically) and things still don’t work out it’s just not right.

A Partner like a friendship, fits into your life and when it doesn’t work despite your best intentions, it’s not the right fit. It’s strange to me to make sure they can make something work with the person they’ve never met. Because you can’t really know how to work things out with someone that doesn’t exist in your life yet.

I don’t think there’s a magic recipe. I don’t think there are truisms that span over billions of people exactly the same way. not beyond kindness…

And I’ve seen tons of relationships, where people went to all kinds of links to maintain a good relationship, and they followed all these rules and at the end of the day some worked some didn’t.

Trying to make something or lose yourself and that can cause the relationship to break apart if you came together because of who you are and who the other person is, and then one of you gets lost, that’s problematic.

Anyhow, I think the way that each person needs to be treated is Definitely context in case & person dependent. There’s no magic bullet. Except Kindness. But that’s true for any relation, not just partners.

I especially dislike people acting fake trying to impress the person And then you end up with someone that you’re not expecting at all. A disillusionment That is totally unnecessary and avoidable.