Polls: Relationships

First, If you have a problem with this being a gendered question Please kindly DO NOT ANSWER. I know both women and men cheat. The rate is very nearly 50/50. Both genders are guilty. You just never, ever see men posting stupid shit like "A real man sticks with you after you cheat, he helps you with your flaws" You literally never see that stupidity coming from men. You see them making stupid excuses, lying, and so on, but that's about it. You also never see men trying to pin cheating pregnancy on men.

So Tell me, does a real man have to accept her flaws including infidelity, cheating, and paternity fraud?

If a girl has been in 3-4 relationships and dated like another 4 guys for months at a time and is 28.

Is she more likely to not get married as she can’t bond with one guy?

It's been a common stereotype for years and I think it's strange especially coming from a culture that puts so much emphasis of "love is love" and personal happiness

I 100% experienced it in the last couple days. Someone terrorized me growing up so badly and then terrorized even more if i tried to get help, lured in to make me ask for help only to deny it, that his words seemed to linger even in those people actually offering help.

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I think the answer is a very clear "no" but I have a bias. I am aware of two women who cheated on me, but I have never cheated on anyone. I know how much those experiences hurt me and I can't fathom how someone can love me but, at the same time, inflict such immense pain. The first time it happened, she confessed to me and told me that she loved me. The second time, there was no confession and I only learned about it later, when we were in the process of a divorce. But at the time she was cheating, she was still claiming to love me.

My best guess is that what those women called "love" was not the same thing that I call love. Both of them were somewhat self-centered and I have guessed that their version of love was based upon loving the way that I treated them but not really loving me. I will never know that those two women felt, so I am asking this question in general.

Can someone cheat on their partner while also loving their partner? If so, is it the same love that non-cheaters feel in a relationship. When you answer, you can answer anonymously, but please do indicate whether you have ever cheated or been the victim of cheating, or both.

Without context if you had to make an educated guess

21 is the last birthday with any remaining significance, after that, who cares? "Oh, I'm 42 and want the day off for my birthday." What a joke