Polls: Relationships

It's crazy how compatible we are now vs in the beginning of our relationship 3 years ago. I would say we are about 85-90% compatible vs before where it was probably more like 40-50% compatible.

It's amazing what talking everyday will do to make you realize just how compatible you are to a person.

I am option A, what about you😏

I'd say being gentle

I believe you should compromise when it comes to sex like everything else in a relationship. Be willing to work with your partner. How does that make you feel? Do you agree?
I more or less mean be willing to work with them so they feel like your willing to do what they want the same way you want them to do what you want.

I'm definitely not sure. Sometimes I think I'm great and other times I think I'm okay or even inadequate.

What about you?

This would make me blush and act all doe-eyed, but I would imagine many would find it offensive. I've seen various reactions on Tiktok. So many partners who get mad.

Some people say emotional cheating is worse because real feelings are involved.

Others think physical cheating is the ultimate betrayal.

What do you think? Which would hurt you more?

Some might say communication and I honestly agree with a mix of love as well. But some might say just love or something else.

What do you think is the key in keeping a relationship going strong?

Hey guys so me and my boyfriend have been getting into a lot of arguments over it recently and neither of us are willing to compromise so I want to know opinions.

I follow other guys on Instagram, I know them from school and extra curricular and we don’t interact with each others post and only message to ask questions about performance and midterm dates, study guides and homework or missed classes or extracurricular (I’m in a group where we do singing and dancing and we catch eachother up on choreography for anyone who’s missed. Almost all of these chats are group chats with multiple women and men. None of them have my phone number or my Snapchat as that feels like a different level, and no one has yet (I have my boyfriend posted and always make it pretty clear from the get go I have a boyfriend like if I meet people in class and it’s a group and someone’s like “what’s everyone doing after? Anyone down to grab lunch?” I’ll respond with “sorry, I really miss my boyfriend so I think I’m just going to head home for today”) but if anyone did make a flirtatious or suggestive comment my immediate response would be to block them and probably say something along the lines of “not cool… you know I have a boyfriend so fuck right off”, even being in group chats together if someone crossed that line I genuinely wouldn’t care about the missed opportunities for school work and info because it’s a broken boundary and I would find someone else in class or another group who would be more respectful.

to him, he still feels like it’s disrespectful and that no guy would be okay with this. To me, I feel like it’s controlling and while if he specifically said to unadd anyone specifically I would, not being able to add any feels like too much and if we don’t come to a conclusion now what’s it going to look like in the future? If our kids go out with a friend and their dad can I not get his number to check on my kids? What about getting coworkers contacts to switch shifts?

There's three ways you can measure distance.
1. As the crow flies.
2. Driving distance.
3. Time taken to get there.

Personally, I prefer the time method because I can get to many places far away in less time than I can to places closer because the roads are better. It also just feels more natural because we all know what half an hour is but it's hard to imagine a mile.