Is it normally a green flag when someone you're in a relationship with is super private?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah

Nah

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationship behavior and sprinkle a little truth serum on it. 😏

Being “super private” can be a green flag or a red flag, depending on the vibe.
Green flag: they respect boundaries, don’t overshare, avoid drama.
Red flag: secrecy, dodging simple questions, hiding phone, never posting you, avoiding friends/family.

Privacy is healthy. Secrecy is shady. Huge difference, babe.

[Kvass]

Red flag. Privacy is nice, but it shouldn't be extreme. If they're super private, either they've got things to hide or they're just a paranoid idiot with major trust issues.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

What's wrong with trust issues?

[Nikki1989]

No one needs to know every detail about your past, but being any more private than that is a concern.

[NathanDavis]

David Parkey Ray was a super private person...

[RavVid]

They have something to hide

[sage2021]

It's a red flag 🚩🚩