There are five traits you must cultivate if you want to be successful in life
In the right way - meaning not just happiness but also fame - not just fame but also relationships - not just relationships but also character - not just character but also success - not just success but also health
1. Physical Tolerance
The ability to withstand physical discomfort and pain such as cold or hot whether - gruelling Manuel labour or posture challenging positions - child birth - perseverance and hard fighting in the face of illness
2. Spiritual Tolerance
The ability to confront rebuke or ethics without griming in self hatred or rebutting with defensive attacks or shirking from duty in laziness or cowardice
3. Social Tolerance
The ability to enjoy the company of others and genuinely desire their happiness and welfare. The ability to be kind spirited and gracious and inclusive and optimistic about strangers. Harbouring a societal vision that includes diversity and protection to all
4. Intellectual Tolerance
The ability to accept contradictory views with understanding and interest and grace without corrupting or lying about your views in the process. The patience to entertain people who are not intelligent enough or wealthy enough to help you reach your goal. The willingness to socialize with people who are neither good looking nor humble.
5. Vocational Tolerance
The willingness to embrace a family member who has insulted you. The willingness to be kind to an employer who gives you unpleasant responsibilities. The willingness to take classes you hate or find difficult and excel in them. The grit to do things you hate so that achieving your goal will be easier. The loyalty to stay with an ugly or brain damaged partner after you exchange vows.
These are the five factors of success and they lead to success in all areas - not just financially and physically but also socially and morally and spiritually.