Is my pastor flirting?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Okay so my pastor been asking me sketchy question from he got my number but the one that got me jumping is when i told him i have social anxiety and he said that he hopes that dont stop him from seeing me.. plus he ask me if i like him... i am crying right now man or so disgusting... i haate my looks am i too pretty... is it too hard to be pretty (God for bid i love my looks) but i hate unwanted attention. TF. the fuck if it is what am thinking so help me god amma swicth church.. it feels so uncomfortable... I am naturally a shy person-plus he is my pastor am 19 and he is fifty for god sake.. please let it no be what i am thinking.

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-wtf he asked me to send him a pic... jesus fucking christ i am nt going back to that church this is it...

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CindersFire Follow
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Well assuming this story is true, as there are a couple red flags, you need to report him. Save his messages and tell the church board and the police what is going on. If he is doing it to you he is doing it/ has done it/ will do it to others. It is an unfortunate reality that human parasites like to abuse the power given to them in positions such as these and it is our job to ensure they are cast out like the filth they are.

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  Like i said i don't want to report him am recovering from speaking out on how on hw i was molested as a child which worsen the situation because now everybody knows and is likely judging. God will send someone to fix his case.. amma place it in his hands... he will know how to handle it...
  
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- CindersFire
  
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  I mean you do you, I believe it's the wrong choice that'll likely end with some poor girl getting taken advantage of. But if you dont believe you have the mental fortitude to see it through than that's understandable. One thing I will say from my experience god doesn't actually fixes things, rather like a good parent he gives us the strength/ support to see the bad things through.
  
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  Thank you for understanding...
  
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Leavesbound Follow
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When I was 10 two Roman Catholic priests sodomized me. That was just the first in a long line of unpleasant religious experiences. If your denomination has a governing body overseeing clergy I suggest reporting him. I also suggest you leave that church. If he is married tell his wife. If your church has elders then tell them. If you can, record what he says to you and then post it in social media.

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  okay, thanks...
  
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AngelLily Follow
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You should Switch to another church sounds like things are getting Inappropriate. Also to One Christan to another just wanted to say I understand your feeling off because of the wrong stuff the Pastor is doing but using the lords name in Vain is not a good idea.

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  okay... thanks
  
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Smashingdoozy Follow
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Sounds like he's trying to groom you. Run girl, run fast.

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  he is married... a fucking seventh day for god sake-they are suppose to be perfect people
  
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- Smashingdoozy
  
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  Doesn't stop people unfortunately
  
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- Asker
  
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  which is very sad because he is suppose to be the example for us to follow...
  
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Red_Arrow Follow
Master Age: 79 , mho 43%

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His thoughts are definitely wrong! Get away from that church to get away from him!

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  he asked me if i got a boyfriend i said yes just to get any thoughts from his mind-and he said okay we will be friends then... The church is really Fucked up! i just realize it today...
  
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Anonymous
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That does sound Like advancements, I would switch churches. Pray that God direct you to a safe church.

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  I will... thanks
- Asker
  
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  I mean I had an anxiety attack...
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  Everyone battles sin, but that is reason for a church leader to step down. Is he also married? Temptation is one thing, but acting out of a position of authority is a violation.
legalboxers Follow
Master Age: 49

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sounds like this clown is doing what these morons are doing to alter boys. This is the "OTHER" white collar crime!!
https://pastorabuse.org/

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Most pastors are ministers of Satan. And this sounds like a troll question though.

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  I just recognize that... i am so naïve. "i grew up believing that pastors aren't like us"
  
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- Asker
  
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  how does it sounds like a troll question
  
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- Hispanic-Cool-Guy
  
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  It just does. My instinct and the wording sounds off.
  
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- Asker
  
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  okay
  
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Avocadorable Follow
Yoda Age: 30

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A lot of wolf in sheep's clothing nowadays in churches.

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Not_Average Follow
Yoda Age: 33

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Report him

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- Asker
  
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  am nt that mean
  
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- Asker
  
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  am just gonna hide him... am nt going to church when he is going...
  
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- Red_Arrow
  
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  Realize that he is probably doing this to others. You might want to warn them.
  
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- Asker
  
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  @Red_Arrow That's true... but i don't want to be the reason he lost his job... he didn't touch me...
  
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In_Trance Follow
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your post says you're 25-29

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  is that what u get am 19 heading to my third year in college
  
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- In_Trance
  
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  Conflicting information makes it difficult to know what to believe.
  I wouldn't worry about the pastor thing. Either way you're too old and probably don't have a penis
  
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- Asker
  
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  i dont get u... he just ask me if i had a boyfriend i just lied and said yes... i wish i was a boy.. it would be much easier
  
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