What to do if everyone you know is narcisitic?

[catarecute]

i was in therapy for two years after leaving a cult now i spent the summer holiday with4 narcisist and i feel like all my time getting better got ruined in two months what to do?

[ProbablyClueless]

Just find new people. There are lots of them out there

[catarecute]

thank you i will try this this week

[genericname85]

well i generally have the following approach: if everyone around you but you are assholes in your mind, the reality of it is that you're probably the asshole. same with narcissism.

[catarecute]

lol and that comment shows ur a complete arse hole

[genericname85]

Well maybe. But what it showed even better is how poorly you take critique and how little self reflected you are. So maybe I am an asshole but at least I know how that I wasn't wrong with what I said ;)

[genericname85]

Now** not how

[catarecute]

maybe i am the dick of the situation and everyone around me is super sweet or i actualy i could be a victim and using this site for suport. with this comment you are playing russian roulette with strengers emotion and therefore your the a** **le. on this note stop commenting on my posts.

[genericname85]

I don't think it's unreasonable to tell people to self reflect. I think you're doing really hard mental gymnastics to make me feel bad about what I said... Which is something a narcissist would do. And I'm not saying you are one. Just food for thought

[catarecute]

i asked you to stop commenting on my post the fact you dont know me and are trying to diagnose me even though your not a doctor means that seriosuly u are toxic stop comenting on my post. i am not gonna block you jsut yet because people who suffer narsistic abuse and use this site need to see what kind of reactions they might get from idiots when they try to seek help. by the way this picture showing your bright blue eye makes you look creepy. i dont know if u are American but in Europe people judge others by their personality no their eye colour.

[genericname85]

So since you've not yet blocked me, maybe you can finally do some self reflection. Look at all the insults, threats and defamations you just threw at me for telling you to look at yourself.

By the way. Your method to avoid actually looking at yourself is by rooting yourself in a victim position, turning me into an evil person so you can legitimate attacking me.

All this to say: you're really making it look as if everyone is right...

[genericname85]

Like I'm not even giving you the conclusion. You could just say that you don't think you are and give some reasons why and I probably wouldn't even contest that. The fact that you never even made that reflection and instead attacked me seems off to me.

[catarecute]

dude this is getting close to harrasment. i dont know you i dont give a shit about your opinion.

[genericname85]

XD stop being a clown and self reflect.

[genericname85]

this completely random attempt of finding shit to throw at me is pathetic.

[Bilboes]

If you can't beat them, join them..

[catarecute]

what kind of answer is that if you are a troll its dark humour.