As a saved Christian woman or man, is it biblical or unbiblical that you become unsaved if you slip up and have sex before marriage?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Salvation is not dependent on whether or not you mess up. If it were, nobody would be saved. Nobody could be, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Everyone. Your family, friends, neighbors, fellow congregants, pastors, teachers, strangers you pass by in the streets, people online, and even me who is writing to you now! We all fall short because we are all incapable of being perfect.

That is why we need a perfect Savior. Salvation is entirely dependent upon what Christ did on the cross! Jesus died so that we would no longer be in bondage to sin, but sin still exists. Now it is your job to flee from sin and not allow any opportunity for sin to come in. You are still going to mess up sometimes, but that does not negate what Christ has already accomplished.
If you mess up; admit that you messed up, repent and turn away from sin and turn towards Christ, then do everything in your power to not let it happen again.

[hopegirly]

Well, what i can say is that a saved person cannot loose their salvation, although God's grace is irresistible and so, if you are a saved person, naturally you would try to do not fell into this sin, and not to be proud of it

[docster]

I would say the phrase is unbiblical, but some disagree based on I Corinthians 6:9-10 where it says neither the sexually immoral. . . will inherit the Kingdom of God. The question is what is sexually immoral? Leviticus chapter 18 lists the forbidden sexual relationships and singles (never marrieds) having sex is not listed.

I agree with the scholars that say when we sin, we lose close fellowship with God, but we don't lose our salvation. When we slip up, we ask for forgiveness and move on. I wouldn't recommend someone continue LIVING in sin, but then it goes back to what does God forbid and what isn't forbidden?

[82lynx]

Early on I worried a lot about trivial things possibly costing me big time in regards to my relationship with God. 20 + years later and I’m a lot more relaxed and reliant on God to take care of me rather than setting myself up for the impossible task of trying to please him.

[TallGuy8383]

Romans 8:38-39 says it all right there. “For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭38‬-‭39‬ ‭ESV‬‬

[bededazzle]

whether it is biblical or unbiblical, since it is not as explicit as other rules, is not agreed upon by christian scholars.

[LazerBean]

You don't become unsaved. But the dating pool for non virgin men and women is significantly lower quality that it is for virgins.

[slatyb]

There are thousands of Christian secrets with varying views on pre-marital sex. In reality, few people wait until marriage.

[DannyUk2017]

Yes... you'll be stripped of your Christianity, so make sure that pussy stays intact until marriage.

[TonyMetal___86]

It's better to not have sex before marriage, cause before being married, you're both are still strangers, not united by god and aren't a family yet!

[AngryCarl2]

I think if you marry the guy you slipped up with it's probably fine.

[strateguy632]

slip up? quite intentional.

[Akam93]

Please no one is perfect.

[TonyMetal___86]

You don't need to be perfect to stay without sex until marriage...

[balyai]

It depends on what you believe