If I had sex before marriage will god forgive me?

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If you dont believe in god dont answer. But I had sex before marriege and I think Ill do it again. I just dont want to upset god. Will he forgive me?

theatreguy · Accepted Answer

The mindset you have right now can be a very dangerous one. God will forgive you if you ask him to, but you have to mean it. Many people your age tend to think that they can get away with sin because God will forgive them. If you want forgiveness, then you have to try and make a change to stop. If you look at the story where Jesus saves the adulterous woman from the people wanting to stone her, he forgave her for having an affair. But remember, he then said "Go and sin no more". If you truly want forgiveness, you have to make a change. Of course God knows about our sinful nature, and he knows we'll screw up time and time again, but he's always there for you. No matter the situation you find yourself in, he's there with love and grace. One more thing to keep in mind that many people forget. Sex isn't the problem, lust is.

BlueCoyote · Accepted Answer

If he doesn't forgive something silly as that, he's a complete retard idiot moron and you're definitely better off without him and your belief in him. Don't let your life be controlled by supernatural dictators and control freaks.
And if it makes you feel any better: Hell will be much more fun anyway. Here's a list of awesome people who had to go to hell. Ooooh well!
www.rationalresponders.com/people_hell_or_their_way_according_tenets_christianity

honeyyyyy · Accepted Answer

Honestly that is between you and God. It is a sin but everybody sins and nobody is perfect. Plus you already lost your virginity so no going back now. If you really want to get right with God then I would just stop having sex before marriage and just wait for the right person and then get married and then have sex but ofcourse it is too hard for some people so if you want to have sex then nobody can stop you. Also I would focus more on being a better, kinder person than on sex lol. I'm sure God cares more about the kind of person you are than the mistakes you have done. :) ok xxx

Imafreespirit · Accepted Answer

We are humans, we all sin because that's our nature. God will forgive you no matter what.

Regret.. That's a word that distinguishes someone who has God as a priority and someone who doesn't, as I said, everyone sins, but the difference is that if God is part of your daily life, then u recognise ur sin and u regret it
You can have sex again, but should u? I think u know the answer to that.

BritByBoringBit1104 · Accepted Answer

God will always forgive. It doesn't have to be saved until marriage. Some people just greatly honor those values. God loves us all no matter what. And believe it or not, Jesus was a sinner, too before He repented and was saved. So, yes, He will forgive you. He forgave me and my husband. All you need to do is ask. He shall hear. :)

Gorgorello · Answer

Um ya, God will never hate no matter what you do.

I don't believe in the whole sex before marriage thing. If you look at what Jesus said, the only definite rule about sexuality is not to cheat.

I treat all relationships the same. Whether you're newly dating or married for years, the one fundamental sexual rule Jesus gave us is the same; never cheat on your partner.

Right.

brian22 · Answer

read 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8, and you will know that God is not giving us an allowance for uncleanliness, but rather for sanctification.
The greek word por-nei'a translated "fornication" refers to sexual intercourse b/n unmarried persons, also extramarital relations.
The fact is YES God forgives but he does not forgive deliberate actions ( when u already begged for forgiveness and u go back to do the sin u did earlier in an attempt to satisfy ur desires)
Now that u know u did the wrong thing n has begged for forgiveness, u r gud to go.. bt any fornication after dis is lyk an insult to God because u r abusing ur rights to ask for forgiveness
Healing starts from the mind, train ur conscience and deaden ur body members (Colossians 3:5) U can mke it.

farris2 · Answer

That's silly thinking, God doesn't have a set of rules to get to "heaven" or "hell" (which doesn't exist). That's called religion. And in my opinion religion is outrages. Religion says if your gay your going to hell... And if God created everyone then why would he make someone gay if it's against his rules... God never made rules it was society. You will be fine. Sorry to rant

FlutteringFeelings · Answer

The bible truly states the consequences for sex before marriage. The bible can only tell you where the forgiveness will come from.

Nobody here can tell you yes or no , they're not God nor can they determine your start and finish.

Anonymous · Answer

If you really believe in God then don't have sex before marriage... you will regret it...

Just waiting t for the right person... You are young now and god is counting on you to not do stupid shit...

How would you feel if your future husband thinks that you are gross that you had so many sex partners?

Just hold it off till marriage...

RomansToPhilemon · Answer

Yes. When you are saved by the gospel you are forgiven of all of your sins. Past, present, and future. And nothing you do or don't do will ever change that.

Guysvsgirls · Answer

Well if you truly do love the guy, and ask for forgiveness, then yes. He will forgive you. God just wants you to remain pure and respect your body and not fall into lust. But ask and you will receive.

523206720 · Answer

Not if you did it knowing it was wrong. He might forgive you if you die of cancer or aids or if you get cheated on and dumped by your next 8 boyfriends but he does not forgive easily.

erandal · Answer

Yes as long as you are genuine in your desirec to seek forgiveness. But if you have sex with somebody else after you get married. Well, you know where you are going then...

YusiBear · Answer

I don't know what Religion you follow but if your God is merciful, all loving and you repent then I'm sure your God will forgive you.

But if its against your Religion I'm sure your God wouldn't want you to do it again, not judging just saying.

archiz · Answer

well according to christianism, god will always accept you back cause he is a loving god :P he will condemn the acts but not the person if that makes sense. I read that somewhere. ;)

serious · Answer

Yes, he will forgive you, I am sure of that. Just remember God loves you no matter what, so he will forgive you.

Krillanr · Answer

According to the King James, the only unforgivable sin is rejecting God. It's not a say a prayer and wish it away kind of thing. But in sincerity you will always be forgiven.

Prilee1992 · Answer

You will be more sorry if your mom found you pregnant.

Yellow_ · Answer

If you repent, He will forgive. But don't take advantage of his forgiveness. You have to try to not do it again after repenting.

Intraluminal · Answer

According to Jesus's teachings god forgives anything except suicide because you can't repent.

letsnot · Answer

He sees past your lust and sin filled heart. He will love you regardless.

Southern_Shorty · Answer

If you repent of your sins, then yes. He doesn't hold a grudge. :]

koksss · Answer

GOD is a great forgiver , as long as u ask for forgiveness , but the point here are u sure that ure gonna be alive when you decide to ask for forgiveness:)

MarkTwain · Answer

I really believe that Gods laws are for the better of man. Like it will hurt us in the long run if we break his laws and he knows that, but no doubt he will forgive if you ask and stop doing it.

APRU5 · Answer

Yes, as long as you belive. That is why he sent the savior Jesus, because he knows no man/women is perfect.

AloneLove · Answer

I dont think God is care ur making sex or not.. But if u do it even u know its forbidden, u should know there will be consequences. Anyway I still dont think noone care ur pussy LoL

Muhammad1999 · Answer

God will forgive anyone that belives him , wether Christian, jew or muslim. But that doesn't mean that God will not judge you

DizzyAster · Answer

Go ask for it and I think you will get it. I mean there are worse crimes/sins.

Omar5881 · Answer

YEAH DUHH he will forgive you , but you have to repent first obviously

vekin · Answer

Christianity teaches that God forgives you when you truly repent

Waffles731 · Answer

I don't think god would care if you had sex before marriage

skeptic007 · Answer

how many sin's did you commit before you got married?

jakeofalltrades · Answer

he forgives murders who have repented in jail, i think he could over look a little pre-marriage sex

Squidward · Answer

Hell be cool as long as you use protection.

TsubasaCorrupted · Answer

If god was actually beneficent, then yes.

PAKMANN29 · Answer

He ask and you shall be forgiven

Lady7 · Answer

I don't know ask god

apple24 · Answer

I am sure he will!

RebeccaSJ · Answer

Yes.

DEEEE2 · Answer

No. Off to hell! :p

SkiBum69 · Answer

Who's god?

Anonymous · Answer

how old are you btw?

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