Do you think that when your power is stunted, God will give you special gifts to dig yourself out of your trap?

[jennifer_bloom]

I know somebody who is blind but they have a better memory then genius I. Q. Bill Gates, and their memory is what got them through university so that they could finish their degree.

I know somebody else that has back pain and has difficulty with physical jobs but they are good at writing and have won multiple awards for their work and writing projects and they were able to buy plane tickets and specialty coffees with their money and they now have a happy and stable boyfriend in the same situation as themselves.

I know somebody else who has difficulty speaking due to health issues but they produce better artwork than a lot of museum chosen calligraphy painters and they run an artistic business to pay the bills.

I know somebody who did not have any special intellectual ability that was significantly above average but they come from a very loving home and their parents found them a wife and now they are a brand new father, with somebody to care for them when they and their family is old.

There are other examples but I don't feel the need to expand the word count for this question.

[ohsheeT]

I think in life that things happen things happen that we might not like but we have to make choices and we have to find that inner strength to become better to not be in that position that we feel helpless and when we have to struggle good things come from that sometimes and new doors open we learned something about ourselves a week become a better person and we discover new things about ourselves and we go with it that's who we become because that is now our strength

Everybody that you have talked about is gone through some sort of ordeal some sort of pain something that could hold them back but they challenged themselves and they said I'm not going to be that person I'm going to be this person and they discover something beautiful about themselves and they've run with it because it works for them it helps them it makes them become a better person within and I think no matter what a lot of people could just give up and a lot of people do just give up but your friends took another path because of their faith or whatever they believe in including themselves

Anytime anything bad happens to us in life or down and out for a few days and we think about it and say why me why this why why why and then after you acknowledge it and you accept it and time passes you look back at it you say I am so glad that that happened to me because look where I am now look just because of that I am now doing this and I am now happier or I am this or that you can't have a good things without bad things sometimes we have to go through bad things to get the good things but we have to be put in a corner sometimes to fight our way out

And once we accept it or acknowledge it that's when good things start to happen that's when we start to grow

And then there are people that just will not accept that and they sit and they wallow in that pain or that whatever it is there in their choice is just to stay right there until one day it might hit them or might come to them that they don't want to be that way and so they start to change and then they say I wish I would have taken so long but we all go through things like that the powers in US the ability is within us our. God says to be like him and create the best you can be and create

[BrotherFalk]

I think that where we lack, we need to rely more on God's grace.

[exitseven]

Every time I felt like I could not go any longer it was rage that pulled me out.