If God has a guy reject you, do you think there is a reason for it?

I did a Google search of a guy I used to like who is now taken and I learned he is extremely abusive towards his women. One of many interests I later understood God’s reasons for sabotaging.

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My enemy claims this question is about him, it’s not. It’s somebody who majored in the same subject as me at school and someone I met before I became a Christian.
If God has a guy reject you, do you think there is a reason for it?
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