Do you think that if a woman is religious that God will reserve her for a religious man so normal guys cannot date her?

[jennifer_bloom]

I know 3 very attractive Christian women from school and church that are always single, sometimes single for over 9 years, despite trying weekly to find a boyfriend or husband.

One got married after 7 years of trying insanely hard to meet somebody. I say she tried insanely hard cause she would wear very uncomfortable and fashionable shoes to church and would volunteer at all major social events that give her publicity for hours and hours each day after her very busy schedule at work.

She also had a good, high paying job, but she still had to wait 7 years for her husband. I also know a few men that tried to date her because I saw them ask her out, but God sabotaged those relationships before they even started.

[Zylos]

I don't believe in God, so no.

I think the reason these women are not finding a man is that they are not being proactive enough. Wearing uncomfortable clothes and going to social events is not that necessary.

Be yourself. Wear something that makes you feel good. If you like a guy, go talk to him, flirt with him. Don't wait for him to notice you.

[Pudsmucker]

II feel God provides those that help themselves. as long as you follow his commandments he will provide a special person for you in your life here on this earth. but sometimes it doesn't work out the way you want it to be I know a woman from my church she was 60 before she was permitted to marry a husband. And he is a very special man to her.

[purplepoppy]

Sounds like a good reason not to be religious.