What if a woman has traditional values but is an atheist too, would men want to marry her?

[Anonymous]

My younger female cousin has most of the traditional values (including virgin till marriage for commitment and growing old with him), is family-oriented, hates parties, never smoked and hardly ever drinks (if so it was just one small glass of wine with the family), doesn't believe in cohabitation, open-minded and is ok with just studying in college for just 4 years. She's currently 21 years old and will be done with college next year.

She had it all except god and religion. She still wants to get married at a courthouse though. It'll be like a ceremony but not in a church nor under God. Guys would this be someone you or other men would want to marry or not?

She has everything you're all asking for except the church and God part.

Yes

No

[ShadezMcgee]

I mean outside the whole bit about not wanting to be married in God's house, I figure it wouldn't be a huge issue for a lot of men for logistical and money reasons, but it really boils down to how religious they are.

The big turn off when it comes to atheists is the kind of atheist they are. Are they the arrogant condescending lot that love to rip on people who believe in God and try to destroy their faith like dickheads or are they ones who can be the agree to disagree type and be cool with their partner's religion if he doesn't force them to partake in it?

[Asker]

She has actually experienced the opposite. It was a couple of religious fanatics called her stupid for not believing in God and that she has a chance for salvation or else she will go in hell, etc. She's respect to people's beliefs or lack of beliefs but wants the same in return.

[ShadezMcgee]

Then that is perfectly fine and acceptable. Both atheists and religious people have those devoted extreme outliers in them, no doubt. But it is possible for both to have those that won't go that far and could be compatible.

It may be difficult because it is a keystone piece in their lives, it just depends on how flexible one is or their hard boundaries.

[DavidRaul]

Yes i would still marry her. Her belief isn't important as her overall personality

[Angelina25]

Why do I have a feeling that you're describing yourself? 😹
It's all right though, sister. Either way I think there's someone out there for everyone. It's just a matter of whether or not you're destined to find them.

[Bratsondanielle]

Well my husband married me and I don't believe in the invisible guy in the sky

[Vesuvius87]

You don't need to believe in magical being watching over you to be a good person. Some rotten people have been the very church-goers.

[Berethor]

Yea maybe, I care more about virginity than religion, there are biological reasons for that.

[driven159]

her personal preference is exactly that personal if you give up on the great woman you my never find another

[bootieclapper9000]

if she has no CHRIST above the dome

she is not worth it

cause she will be thrown away

[Bratsondanielle]

But has it ever occurred to you that maybe just maybe hypothetically the invisible guy in the sky isn't real?

[truthisthree]

waste of time

I do not date insane people anymore

[Anonymous]

I would rather not get married at a courthouse. But otherwise I would like to date and possibly marry her.

[Anonymous]

She sounds like the perfect woman to me.

[barn_stormer]

i'm an atheist too so sure