Do you find it unethical for a registered senior nurse to be asking if you believe in god and not liking the answer?

[Vesuvius87]

I'm at home recovering for a myomectomy (uterine fibriod removal) and that's the only nurse (all the others were kind) I didn't like much. She was also rude to my father and even scolded me harshly. I was in pain and took weak to reply back.

Then she brought up the question of whether I believe in god or not. I shook my head and she seemed quite shocked. She asked again ''but not even a bit? I replied with a clear no the second time. She started asking why not, since when, what happened. I didn't have much to tell except that I've been like since childhood and everyone is different.

Well by asking that question, there are only two answers, yes or no. If they're not happy with the patient's answer then don't involve religion into your job. Honestly do you find that unethical?

[FreyaRed]

You could be politically correct and tell her something like "religion is a very private matter and I think we shouldn't discuss such topics between patient (or person connected with patient) and a medical help."

Other option is to answer "Yes I believe in god" even if you don't do. It doesn't cost you much and someone who is obsessed with religion won't generate any negative emotions towards you. Of course it's possible an atheist can be offended by your statement but it's very unlikely.

[Vesuvius87]

There still seems to be a big assumption that all patients are believers and religious.

[strateguy632]

That was harmless, not "unethical ". Ethics does not mean "only do job." Respect vegetarian means "be considerate," not act same, i can eat meat but Respect so same respect islam and atheism does not mean act same!

People who pray have better odds at recovery So asking was appropriate.

[DryGermanGuy]

I guess she can ask, but she should be professional enough not to turn your answer into a police examination. Maybe she transferred from a church-run hospital?

[Vesuvius87]

That's the point as a professional. There still seems to be an assumption that all patients are believers and religious. Even though we're fewer (though increasing in recent years) in numbers, we're still people with our family.

[jshm2]

No. she's just making making conversation, and looking at your shitty life choices that have lead you to this point.

You need her care, not the other way round.

[Vesuvius87]

It's partially genetics too. My maternal grandma and mom had the same issue.

[roy_ricky09]

No... Unethical is the wrong word here.
I think she was only trying to know, so she may ask you to pray for your quick recovery.
And the rude part, it happens a lot because of the job. They have seen a lot and they can't be soft or emotional.

[Vesuvius87]

It makes me think she likely never met an atheist patient before and I must be the very first one. That must be why she made that assumption that all patients are believers and into religion. Still, as a professional she has be ready for both answers to that question.

[Vesuvius87]

My medications and the natural process are making me feel better. That's quick recovery to me.

[roy_ricky09]

No you are wrong again. This had nothing to do with the beliefs. You are too much concerned about it.
So what if she asked you that? It's not something offensive. No one has their beliefs written on their face.