Do you agree with this Christian dating advice about trusting God for a spouse?

[jennifer_bloom]

All the Christian pastors and bible leaders say, if you want God to give you a husband or wife, you should chase God and focus on helping others, and Jesus said to help in secret, and trust God to reward you in public. As a Christian, it was always the kingdom of love that attracted me, good looks and good money was never as strong as God’s kingdom in making me like someone.