Do you have faith in marriage?

Question

A man has to convince me very well about this, otherwise I don't think I'll be happy even if I get married, I always have bad thoughts in my mind.

Lowly_Grumper · Accepted Answer

You're standing at the altar, the priest is droning on about "until death do you part," and suddenly, the groom's face starts to melt like a wax candle in a sauna. His eyes turn into writhing, unholy horror cocks, each one a wriggling, slimy tentacle with a tiny, screaming mouth at the tip. They start to whisper sweet nothings in a language that sounds like nails on a chalkboard, promising eternal bliss while your soul is slowly tortured by a chorus of demonic violins.

The bride, in her white dress, starts to levitate, her eyes rolling back to reveal galaxies of pure, unadulterated despair. Her dress transforms into a writhing mass of serpents, each one a tiny, venomous tongue flicking out to taste the air. The serpents start to sing a lullaby in a voice that sounds like a thousand broken glass shards, and the groom's cock starts to dance in time with the music.

The priest, now a grotesque, bloated creature with a mouth full of razor-sharp teeth, starts to chant in a language that sounds like the screams of the damned. The church walls start to bleed, and the stained-glass windows shatter, revealing a sky filled with writhing, unholy horror cocks. The altar turns into a pool of molten lava, and the groom and bride are pulled into it, their screams of agony echoing through the heavens.

And that, my dear, is what marriage looks like when you don't have faith in it. So, if you're looking for a happy ending, you might want to reconsider your stance on marriage. Or at least, find a man who can convince you that his unholy horror cocks are worth the risk.

Off_Jack · Accepted Answer

Oh, oh oh sweet child of mine, you're worried about marriage? Ha! Let me tell you something, the only thing I have faith in when it comes to tying the knot is the infinite possibilities for hot, steamy, and utterly filthy wedding night action. Imagine that white dress, so pure and innocent, just begging to be stained with my essence. As I start jacking off, I picture myself ravaging that blushing bride, lifting her veil to reveal her hungry, yearning face.

Your doubts and fears? They're nothing but fuel for my arousal. The more you question, the more I fantasize about conquering those reservations with every inch of my rock-hard desire. I'll make you feel so good, you won't even remember what those bad thoughts were. Your mind will be consumed with the pleasure of my coom, coating every inch of your body, marking you as mine.

And as for convincing you? Well, let's just say that by the time I'm done working my magic, you'll be begging for a lifetime commitment to a never-ending orgasmic journey. My musk will be the only thing on your mind, and the idea of sharing it with anyone else will seem like a distant memory. So, go ahead, little one, immerse yourself in my coom-filled dreams, and let me show you what true happiness feels like. In this twisted fairytale, happily ever after means being drenched in the proof of my unyielding passion.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

We have a faith marraige. When I have bad thoughts or do something wrong he spanks me, I'm a bad girl a lot.

thegreenyogi · Accepted Answer

I do as long as it's for the right reason which is one and only

Summeroflove · Answer

I’m the same way I think many people trust someone too fast before jumping into marriage. The other extreme of future faking is rushing marriage too fast and someone should be cautious if someone has more nefarious intentions. But even for people who may both be good genuine people need to make sure they’re compatible before they are miserable later on as well.

Trust takes time, I’ve seen people both men and women become too trusting. Empathic people many times project who they are on partners assuming that because they love someone and have their best interests at heart. As well as can’t imagine being with someone they genuinely love…. Don’t understand that some people are more nefarious and don’t make genuine connections.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"Marriage" has never failed anyone, but many people have failed their partners, have failed to hono and respect their partners, have failed to respect their vows. The problem is not marriage. The problem is people who run from commitment at the first sign of trouble.

I have been in a number of long term relationships that ultumately failed. I don't blame women in general. I blame my partners and myself.

HawkPerception · Answer

I do, but it's definitely not for everyone. There are tons of guys that will let their partner do all the housework, even if they work too and put zero effort in a relationship. And there are also tons of girls that are entitled, narcissistic, feminists that do not care about what makes their partner happy.

Bad relationships always have narcissists.

Anonymous · Answer

I believe in the concept of marriage, but I have zero faith in what it has become in recent decades.

To be clear, the problem is not marriage; it's divorce. More specifically, the problem is the female biased divorce courts, and women's willingness to use them to their advantage and "divorce rape" their husbands. It's no secret that half of today's marriages end in divorce, women file 80% of them, and men get screwed in divorce and child custody. It's one of the reasons there is an epidemic of suicide among middle aged men today. In my circle of family and friends I have seen far too many examples just in the last five years of men's lives being turned upside down by divorce, and I've been close enough to those cases to understand the circumstances well enough to know most of those men got screwed by selfish women.

There was a popular YouTube video by a female divorce lawyer titled "how to divorce rape your husband". It has since been taken down, but not before it got millions of views. I watched it several times and it was disgusting.

As a whole, women generally refuse to take any responsibility for the problem, which is a recipe for what we are seeing today... plummeting marriage rates. Marriage is the cornerstone of a healthy society, and western society will fail without it. That's exactly where western society is headed.

lightbulb27 · Answer

where those thoughts come from? There's so much damage in our society as us kids grow up, we see the problem cases, may not be able to interpret it right... and we end up with fear.

Fear can be real, but so are solutions.

I have faith in Christ, I have some trust in myself to uphold my commitments and I learned to love and trust my wife.

The future is not knowable, and you want to choose wisely. Hope for the best, make effort to do right and don't let fear be your guide as it is a terrible master.

I see many people married successfully for long time. It does take work and there are ups and downs at times.

Shiprex · Answer

If you are someone who has the ability to live with someone and not take yourself too seriously as well as not be fixated about things particularly and you can meet someone else who has similar traits AND you both have goals and means to achieve those goals AND you are both fond of GIVING but not accounting for that giving by keeping score then marriage could be good.

Being capable of committing to one person is also kinda good and the capacity to WANT to grow and be with them is important oo.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Do I have faith in marriage? Oh HELL nO! With marriage it’s all about the three rings. Engagement ring, wedding ring & suffering. I have never been married & if truth be told I don’t want to get married & if I’m stupid enough to get married hopefully I’m smart enough to have a prenuptial agreement in place & a good divorce lawyer on retainer.

Marriage is like a hurricane there is a lot of blowing in the beginning & when it’s all said & done your house is gone.

Lliam · Answer

I do. But I didn't start thinking about the possibility of settling down until my early to mid 30s. Up until then, I had steady girlfriends from the time I was 16, but I couldn't imagine being married.

I've been happily married now for over 28 years and am very content.

jshm2 · Answer

Yes. But more importantly, what makes you worthy of marriage? and can someone trust you enough in it?

The reason a lot of people don't marry is that they cannot trust, or be trusted. On top of that, there is the family aspect. Some people deserve to die alone, some have enough heart to marry and raise a family that will forever keep them in their heart.

Med_guy1978 · Answer

Don't expect the worst, this kind of tense feeling and negativity will just push you apart. Get jealousy out of your mind and go with the flow and be happy. Remember, prepare yourself... You will get what you deserve so you will almost attract someone similar.

Miristheiss · Answer

The people suck so bad now that they cannot live up to marriage.

You comment of not being happy is proof. You speak as if your spouses job is to make you happy. A fleeting feeling.

You speak as if the moment you feel unhappy you'll divorce.

People have no concept of marriage and duty and commitment and serving your mate. How to love.

Please never marry. You have probably had so much sex before marriage that you are not worthy of being a wife anyway.

DJB72 · Answer

I had 21 years with my wife before she passed away last year. Not always easy but I don't regret it, other than I wish it had been longer.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

People in Sex Free countries, having multiple partners, habitual of new taste and new partners , don't have interest in marriage , if they have , that mostly not successful, if they are together but still most of them, cheating each other.

But in Muslim countries, it is reverse, because in those countries, sex without marriage is considered a BIG SIN, and there are laws to punish people who do illegal sex , means , sex without marriage, and Society hates such people. Mostly arranged marriages are successful in Muslim countries

I don't about your thought about sex and reaction from your society, so you are best judge

Ladsin2 · Answer

Sounds like you won't be happy either way.

I believe having a good marriage is possible, albeit not as likely as in the past. Reason being we don't have the right culture for it. Women and men are less happier than ever in recorded history and I think this is part of the reason for it.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I don't care for papers or ceremonies... I care for him :D

SeekerOfTruth007 · Answer

The way the law presently gives women all the "rights" in divorce, there is no rational reason for any man to ever marry. Divorce = slavery of men, which is supposed to be illegal in this country.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I have faith in marriage, but I've really struggled to find people who see forming those kinds of connections as a priority.

My concern is that my generation will simply run out of time to have love in our lives.

Subtle_Luminescence · Answer

No, i don't believe in that. Islam gave me peace and no one can convince me to marry a non believer.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

It's not marriage, the institution itself has been solid since the dawn of mankind.. It's people.. The selfishness, and self centeredness that would ruin marriages...

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not really. Marriage where I live is a contract between three parties: each spouse and the state. The state retains the power to alter the terms at any time. Why would I trust politicians with something as important as this?

Staximus · Answer

Sounds like you have a bad habit of pissing in your own Cheerios

worldscolide · Answer

I've been married 10 years.. What does that tell you? Do I believe inarriage for leftists? Feminists? No.. But for us normal people, yes. Normal meaning anyone who isn't radical left or right.

elizamichale1 · Answer

I used to think i would never get married but since I m married for 2 years plus n I m actually happy

fish5505_87 · Answer

A man has come to convince you of this. You couldn't figure this out on your own! Seriously, love is a sick and twisted being. Many times the reasons we fail, are our own.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I wanna get married one day but I don't have faith in it

CrazyKittyCatLady · Answer

With the right person? Yes but only if I am 100% sure.

CrisboOx · Answer

Yes, I do. I have been married for 2 years, since I was 20. Of course, we have our ups and downs in marriage, but in the end, it's all worth it, and there is nothing to regret, as long as you are with the right person.

QuestionObsession · Answer

Faith in marriage? Marriage is abstract, nothing to have faith in. One could however have faith in the person they will marry.

Anonymous · Answer

Marriage is not a beneficial as it use to be women no longer NEED the protection it used to give them and for men it doesn’t work as well anymore either.

Legal marriage isn’t for everybody if you find somebody you love you can choose to not be legally married but you can live together and do everything a married couple can marriage is just a legal document that come with a few tax benefits

Jay-_- · Answer

Do I have faith in me getting married? No not really.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not anymore. I don't think most women are even capable of a lifetime commitment anymore. And that is the ONLY way I'd do it.

locusteo · Answer

You'll be hard pressed searching your whole life for him. Hope the right one finds you because everyone deserves a friend in this maze.

oceandepth1000 · Answer

i do. i would try my best to make it hurt its just terrifying having the thought of someone crushing your heart

DrPepper12 · Answer

Bad thoughts like cheating? Marriage is whatever you want it to be or make it. Ethical non monagamy is a definite option if so.

RossyBoi · Answer

No. People get married to use each other for money.

GAGsucksballs89170 · Answer

I don't. I don't think marriage is necessary

Girls, please don't confuse a WEDDING, with a marriage. I know you, you want the white dress, and all the attention on you. I get it, but please, don't confuse a party, with a life

MikeTheGreek1979 · Answer

Faith get raked over coals of what little money I make.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but it's not very likely that I'll have a chance of getting married.

Eempriyanka · Answer

Shouldn't marry soon and mute the feelings of love

Anonymous · Answer

There's barely faith in marriage anymore. Just a piece of paper

RedThread · Answer

It depends on the specific marriage we're talking about.

Grond21 · Answer

Yes, but only with the right woman. She makes all the difference

tzdc21 · Answer

Marriage, yes. Divorce laws, he'll no

jamesgoldman · Answer

The amount of wedding rings I buy I'm saying no

TatesGirl62 · Answer

Just becareful these days.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Not anymore, unless the person was really like me!

Cyrus000 · Answer

Well are you looking to stay single forever?

Tstrbrainer · Answer

What makes you lose faith in marriage?

wkhan_87 · Answer

Yes i prefer marriage than just a relationship

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Do you think every man is bad

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

Bad thoughts about what?

serious · Answer

No. Not 100%

HДLILБΞУ · Answer

Yes there is..

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

no its pointless

Jamie05rhs · Answer

What bad thoughts?

PaleDale · Answer

Nope

eagle1951 · Answer

yess

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