Is my view on a God-chosen spouse and compatibility biblical?

[jennifer_bloom]

When I was 18 I fell in love with a guy who had been extremely nice to me, and he rejected me when he learned I had family drama.

I met another guy I almost began dating 2 years later, but since I slacked off on my religion after severe burnout, he never became my partner.

I have concluded that if God gives you somebody, they will be able to deal with you.

If they cannot handle your problems, or you cannot handle their problems, then they are not the partner that God has chosen for you.

The one God chooses for you will be compatible with you in every way you require their compatibility, and you will be compatible with them, in every way that they require your compatibility.

[Anonymous]

In the Book of Enoch it says cosmetics, jewelry, fashion and perfumes are forbidden knowledge given to humans by fallen angels to corrupt us, along with weapon crafting and warfare strategy. Maybe we’re not supposed to date (at least not as much as we do). I think modern dating is disordered. It causes so much trouble, despair and even death. It may be part of our fallen state in the fallen world. I wonder if God intended for us to pair based on personality foremost and almost exclusively.