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I'm asking this if you been around since 2019 some of you might have been appouched by a user asking to see your genital while your on the toilet. This person saw I was close to another user and asked me to ask her for a picture of course I said no

I have had at least 75 first dates as a result of online dating, and a few were horrible (pictures not current, lied about age, etc.) Most of them weren't that awful, but we just weren't a good match. When I got some experience with rejecting a lady, I eventually decided that the best thing to do was to walk the lady back to her car, no good night kiss, no hug, tell her that I enjoyed meeting her, she seems like a nice lady, but I don't think we're a good match and I wished her good luck with her search. That stopped any expectations from developing and avoided the appearance of misleading her in any way. Maybe that isn't how she wanted to hear that message, but I thought it was better than taking the easy way out by texting or simply not calling her again.

If you were the lady on one of those first dates, how and when would you want that message conveyed to you? If you were the guy, how do you think that message should be delivered?

(Yes, I know that it isn't entirely up to me to decide whether to have a second date; a woman can reject me after the first date, and I have had that experience. I'm just asking about this from a guy's perspective. If you want to ask about how a girl should reject a guy, you can post your own question.)

I'm talking about the ethnicity here and not just continent of birth. So African Americans count here but when I say Asians, I specifically mean east and southeast Asians. I'm excluding subcontinentals (Indians, Pakistanis etc).

Don't get me wrong, other ethnicities are great too, but this question is just about Asian and African girls.

There are so many pros to both and the cons are considered pros by many anyway.

They both share similarities but also differences. Asian and African girls both usually have flawless skin. They are also both pretty low maintenance too. For example a lot of Asian girls have never even trimmed the hedges in the lady garden because it just naturally grows in the pattern of a perfect bikini wax. Similarly African girls have it grow very tight that it doesn't really require grooming, however, it spreads out. But then the hair on their heads looks great when left natural. Similarly Asian girls hair is naturally super straight and gorgeous. Each one has their respective hair feature maxed out to perfection.

Asian girls are often naturally petite whereas African girls are often well endowed with T&A. Both pros depending on who you ask.

Asian girls are so smart. Whatever skill you have, there's an Asian girl who can do it better than you. That's just a fact.

African girls are super athletic and competitive. If you think you're good at a sport, you haven't played againt a motivated African chick.

Both have naturally gorgeous facial features.

It is such a hard choice. Which is yours?

*I am a white male asking this. You have been warned.