Do Country White Guys date outside of their race?

[Askincuzimnosey]

I am genuinely serious, I just have been through racial trauma. Proceed to comment kindly and with an open heart because I am asking a sincere question. thanks

Before getting all charged up... I had a mother who was... off, if you will. She would constantly point out bad things about "the white man" "white people" and how they were all bad and I had to be careful. (Fear feeding is a real thing)

Back to my question. I have gone on dates with different kinds of guys, but never a Caucasian country guy. Fast forward to now after (therapy) and getting comfortable knowing and being myself... I find that I am double lookin at the country guy's, like heyyyyy baaabyyy. (Seriously got me wanting to ride a mower with Dasiy Dukes on)

Anyhoo, is there a chance for a lady like me? I was told "their kind" stay together and don't like a drop of "N" blood. In my heart I don't believe any one group of people is better than another. There are good people and bad people.

So I'm being nosey and asking for some education. Honesty is much appreciated.

P. S. S. Where do I start this new adventure?

[Jazzy54]

Honestly, it depends on their upbringing. I know several interracial couples. Unfortunately, they have to deal with nonsense. I must say, though, as an African American female, I’ve always been attracted to white guys. 😊

[Jazzy54]

It also depends on their preferences.

[Askincuzimnosey]

Somethin bout a man with mud on him 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Yes but often in secret. I was told several times “we can date but my mom can't know because she doesn't approve”. So in my eyes, we can't date and we’re not going to

[Askincuzimnosey]

That's crappy... but you point is valid. Why waste time

[DizzyDesii]

Yep i love a southern accent but i prefer a guy who knows how to stand up to his parents

[Askincuzimnosey]

🎯 on point

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

It's all about upbringing. I live in the country, and a lot of the white country guys out here are pretty open

[Askincuzimnosey]

I would love to live in the county. And what kind of old school metal are ya listening to?

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

Currently listening to Iron Maiden as I type this. I could ramble off a long list though haha

[Askincuzimnosey]

🤘🏼

[purplepoppy]

If your talking about American ones most don't date outside their own family.

[Nikki1989]

Most people do as far as I know.

[Askincuzimnosey]

That's what my heart told me, but then there is the "fake fear" that was pressed upon me 🤦🏻‍♀️

[LazerBean]

Yes, all the time.

[Askincuzimnosey]

Ok, girls... can you rally a few together and send em over please n thanks? 😂