Search Results: being a good friend

Guys, Why would a guy get angry when I rejected them?

Some guy approached me and said, “What’s up baby? Looking all good and them curves. Hot!” I was like, “Excuse me? I am not your baby.” He asked me out and I said no and walked away. He asked me two more times and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you ever double text when someone ghosts you?

So I started dating a girl I matched on an app about 2 weeks ago. The dates have been really great, we have been on 4 in total. We’ve kissed goodbye at the end of each date and it’s been really nice, but there hasn’t been...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What do you think happened?

I was really cool with this guy I work with until suddenly he stopped talking to me. Nothing serious, nothing flirty between us but it just felt good to have someone to get along with at the job. We don't work on the same...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why Do I Feel Anxious Every Time I Hang Out With My Friend?

I have this friend I’ve known for almost two years, and every time we plan to go out—like when we set a specific day for it—I wake up on that day feeling anxious, with my stomach in knots, and just really uneasy. It feels...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does my sister and best friend think I’m dating the wrong man?

I’ve been seeing this guy I met at college for three months and I really do like him. He’s funny, smart, honest and he’s so cute. Love that he does not take shit from anyone. I really like him but lately I keep thinking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, women; would you go to the gynaecologist's if?

Would you go to the gynaecologist (with a very good reputation) if... 1. He was your father/brother? 2. He was your partner"s father/brother? 3. He was a family friend? 4. He was your ex highschool classmate and you were...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Don't you agree that Americans would starve if famers had to pay a living wage to immigrants?

Inspired by @avicenna I've never understood why Democrats were always for strong union wages and a living wage for those not in unions. Why? That's cray cray! Won't that just drive up prices for consumers? That crazy...

kavakava

Xper 1 Age: 30

Have you stayed in a relationship even if your partner cheated or had an affair?

Nothing in life is black and white. The older we get, the more complicated life gets and shades of grey appear. Life is harsh, and survival is key. Sometimes we compromise to further things for our loved ones. This being...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you get someone to stop bringing up an ex?

I had a situationship with this guy two years ago. He was pretty terrible and treated me horribly. He never wanted a relationship but also didn’t want me dating anyone else. It only felt like he was just chatting to me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why do I get hurt when one person or some others don’t like me or interact with me? Do people not like autistic people?

I know I'm unlikable to neurotypical people and I never understood why. I am autistic. Im sweet, hardworking, nurturing and so and so. I can be repetitive, bossy and according to some people annoying and rude. Also...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I try to reconcile?

I had this friend for 6+ years, she was my best friend and I was hers (she said). Went through some trauma bonding freshman year of college (though we met before college) and other stuff. As time went on we saw each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Things I Wish People Understood About Weight Loss

I wish more people understood these 10 things about weight loss. People want quick, they want easy, and they want impossible, but those things do not help you on your journey down in pounds. 1. Temporary motivation...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Anyone else terrified of being “second choice” to the people you love?

Bit of a vent, bit of a question. I’ve had a lot of friendships fade over the years — especially close female friends — because they get into relationships and slowly phase me out. No drama, no fights, just… gone. It’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Part 2 of what is he not telling her?

A while back, my daughter found out that he would make his mom say no about him going places with my daughter like to her house or family events. And stuff, when it was really him, he just didn't want to go, but he was...

Louisiana1989

Xper 4 Age: 37

Guys, Why is my guy friend acting obnoxious whenever I meet a guy?

I’ve known him since first grade and he’s ALWAYS sat next to me. Everytime boys would pick a partner it’s always me. Even when I want to pick other boys. He always followed me around EVERYWHERE at recess and it annoyed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

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Adulthood: What I've found out so far in my own journey

Adulthood: what? Adulthood is defined differently and consists of different components depending on who you ask. However, more or less directly, all fingers point in a few of the same directions. These directions are...

TalkWithoutSpeaking

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Do you think is SERIOUSLY fair that my friends only hook me up with chubby or fat guys because I’m a chubby big girl myself?

It’s so unfair. I mean I appreciate them wanting me to be happy but I always get hooked up with fat guys. I’ve always been a big girl. Tall girl. It sucked throughout childhood. My slim friends always get asked out, I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

What's the most "unearned" compliment you've ever gotten?

By "unearned" I mean a compliment you got basically for nothing or for something very basic that wouldn't warrant a compliment. A compliment that feels patronizing and/or condescending but unintentionally so. I'll give...

EzraIsShy76028

Xper 7 Age: 24