How do you get someone to stop bringing up an ex?

[Anonymous]

I had a situationship with this guy two years ago. He was pretty terrible and treated me horribly. He never wanted a relationship but also didn’t want me dating anyone else. It only felt like he was just chatting to me when he was not getting attention from another girl. I didn’t know this at the time.

He was friends with my sister before we met and they had some good times. They were coworkers and they would go eat somewhere together for lunch and talk. Him and I met through her and it was his idea supposedly. There was always drama between the three of us.
He got into a relationship with another girl and that’s when he started treating me even more terrible including my sister but then later would come back like nothing happened. I ended things with him for good to respect his relationship though he didn’t want to.

Now when I’m hanging out with my sister, she brings him up randomly. One minute she’s calling him gay or DL the next minute it’s a funny story between them two with a smile on her face. It’s been two years and I don’t feel like being stuck on him. There’s nothing “😊” worth about him and I regret everyday being involved with him.

[ohsheeT]

Ok well your sister still stuck on him and she's bringing him up because she wants you to tell her everything you know just in case you really are still danging him she wants to know it

You can tell her a hundred times that you hate the guy but in her head she's going to think you're still dating him or she's going to keep asking you questions or talking about him just to see if you slip up


The best thing you can do.
Is change the subject or tell her straight up? Look at if you like him that much to keep bringing him up. Why don't you just go see him

That might make her think twice about bringing him up again. Because you wouldn't say that if you were dating him behind her back

But yeah you learned your lesson with the guy and she didn't so she wants to go and do that

She doesn't understand what a joke. The guy is where you are a little bit more mature and you know exactly who he is and what he's all about

So is she brings up his name to say, go see him call him text him do whatever you gotta do, talk to him about him. I don't want to talk about him anymore. Ever i've moved on

And maybe if you do that, the right way, she will understand that she will learn from you instead of trying to even get back with the guy.
That she secretly loves likes whatever.

[Ask105]

It all seems like lost souls, continue make good decisions once a woman get attached to abusive man she's fcked for life I've seen it and it reflects every relationship this stupid rollercoaster seems like your sisters may never end

[In_Trance]

Have you tried telling her to STFU?
That could work

Ask your doctor if STFU is right for you

[Anonymous]

Start telling him about all the guys you've boned and how big they were. Guys love that.😆

[dudeinohio]

Just tell them