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I'm (35) infatuated with a smart, kind colleague (35), a single mom. We share late chats and moments, but her mixed signals leave me unsure?

I’m 35M, and I’ve developed feelings for my 35F colleague, a single mom I deeply admire for her intelligence, kindness, and shared understanding of life. We worked closely for five months, starting with a professional...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Women, here are red flags in a man from a mans point of view

Trigger Warning: If you've had a bad relationship before that was so bad it caused PTSD than perhaps you shouldn't read this and should just turn around now. I give you permission to pretend you read it and leave a...

NathanOlipop

Xper 2 Age: 36

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Why would his behavior change in a good way at me when he already had a date with someone else?

So this guy from work he was very difficult to talk to. He was very shy, awkward and also did not started much convos. Yet he was sweet when he talked to me. I developed some feelings for him during the weeks that I got...

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

Break Up & Divorce

Is my female friend reconsidering dating me after previous rejections?

I have a long time friend who i have been in love with for some time. Although in the past, I have asked this person on dates on several occasions, I have been rejected each time. However, a year ago we had an argument...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I’m confused about my feelings?

When I first met my boyfriend, I wasn’t really attracted to his appearance, though he was very attracted to me. What drew me in more was his personality and the way he treated me. We went through a very back-and-forth...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If a guy ignores a paragraph you sent him about what’s been stressing you out, and you ignore him. is he going to realize that he started it first?

For context, I’m 22, and 37. I don’t feel like I should have to explain to him how to treat me or talk to him. I thought dating an older guy would mean more emotional mature but I’m getting more confused than ever with...

Anonymous

(18-24)

For context, I’m 22, and 37. I don’t feel like I should have to explain to him how to treat me or talk to him. I thought dating an older guy would mean more emotional mature but I’m

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Really really confused. What do I do?

Ok. So I’ve been talking to a woman who I’ve seen as a friend for years, let’s call her Amanda. We started texting more and I started developing feelings. Now, I’ve been out of the dating game for a while because of a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is my coworker shy around me and does he likes me back, if yes then what do I need to do?

So he came working this summer as fulltime carmechanic and i am only working on the Saturdays and 4 hours in the week. So i see him at least 3 times a week. He can talk to anyone, even other woman, clients. Like its just...

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

Told my crush my feelings confused on what to do next?

I'm in college and in one of my classes I developed a crush on a girl. We would play eye tag so I got the vibe she was interested also. So one day when I saw her studying at school in between classes I worked up the...

SkyKing89

Xper 4 Age: 36

What do you you think of my diary post today?

I've added/hidden bits for anonymity or context Today feels like a haze of frustration and exhaustion. The past few days have left me feeling a bit flat, like I'm carrying around the weight of too many inconsistent...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

Haven’t heard back from him after a while?

So, some background details. I just recently started dating a guy. We hit it off great. Have been super chatty at times via text as well and he’s opened up a lot to me. All of a sudden he got sick and had to cancel a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do the majority of women resort to insulting men who say uncomfortable truths?

I have noticed that when any male, myself included, points out something about females that doesn't paint them in a good light but is true nonetheless, the male is accused of having some kind of issue. For example, they...

Shoichiro

Xper 5 Age: 26

Do guys give girls a second chance?

A guy I met online pursued me and treated me well, but I got scared of my feelings for him, we argued and lost contact for months. After finally dealing with my emotions now, I decided to apologize and finally move on,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, I was given lots of mixed signals, any thoughts or advice?

I recently caught up with an old friend of mine at a party who I knew had a crush on me when we were younger (Middle school young then, I'm 23 now, she's 21) I shared the feelings but never asked her out, and I told her...

Anonymous

(18-24)

He ended the 10 year affair but now he’s crawling back?

So to keep it simple, I was part of a 10 year affair, I’m also married. It was some of the best years of my life, I have no regrets and I adore him. Unfortunately, neither of us was willing to compromise our marriages as,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do people usually come back to their partners after pushing them away during a depressive episode?

I have been dating this guy since February. (24F & 27M) He asked me out, pulled away after our first date because he didn’t expect us to hit it off as well as we did. We ended up staying friends but still kind of dating....

jessst

Xper 4 Age: 30

Should I confess to my boy best friend (again) or just silently give up?

Hi everyone! So we met back in college and it’s been about 10 years. I had a crush when we first met and I confessed after a year ish of knowing each other, but he said that he wanted to keep our friendship the same and...

itsmemarissa

Xper 1 Age: 31

Do girls stake guys Facebook? if so what's going on? should I add her?

Last night, I gave a ride to a beautiful girl from the airport using Lyft, and we ended up having a non-stop conversation for 30 minutes. After dropping her off, I regretted not making a move and have been thinking about...

Bristlebeck

Xper 4 Age: 34