Search Results: focus on a relationship

Irrational fear that my boyfriend will physically hurt me?

My boyfriend (21M) and me (20f) have been together 6 months, with bunch of arguments over fundamentals, our backgrounds etc cause we jumped into a relationship within 10 days of meeting. We’ve never raised our voices,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Going through a break up whilst in a relationship?

So I know I’m going 2 gt lots of hate, honestly don’t waste your tym I’ve neva been the type to care wht others think so unless it’s helpful 2 my recovery I won’t be acknowledging. I’m currently in a 15 year marriage&...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Whose responsibility is it to talk about my girlfriends (34f) past, family, trauma etc? Mine (32m) or hers?

Dating 4 months and I am someone who likes to find out more about my partner slowly over the course of a relationship by asking questions or as things come up naturally. My intentions are to be with her long term (I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever been so focused on your relationship that it held you back from self-improvement?

I spent 247 with my ex-girlfriend, and now that she's gone, i realize I've barely improved in life since I was so focused on spending time with her. Yes I did get my driver's license with while with her and was in n out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it with dating and relationships the focus is on rules, boundaries and red flags rather than just having fun and enjoying the moments?

It’s like he’s people have bad intentions and you may get hurt but going on trying to instantly protect yourself from being hurt and trying to control the outcome takes away from the experience of getting to know someone...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does my ex girlfriend/friend block me every time she gets into a new relationship?

So my ex-girlfriend is always broking me every time she gets into a new relationship. She will block me for months, but as soon as the new relationship fails or she goes to mental health issues, she will text me for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Celebrity intervenes in my relationship?

So I have been dating my boyfriend now for around 8-9 months. Everything is great, he’s kind to me, loyal, a sweetheart, takes me out, has introduced me to all of his friends. We’ve told each we love one another. There...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend's daughter is starting to really scare me, are my concerns right?

Currently in a new relationship for slightly over a year and I know this is going to sound very stupid (or maybe I'm overthinking things) to say it but my boyfriend's (34 M) daughter is starting to really scare me. The...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, can you sense guys competing for dating you?

I noticed one friend of my group likely approaching a common female friend who had quit with her boyfriend last autumn, and another guy had gone as far as talking about each other's dating intentions, as in "I'm searching...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

For what quantities make Men from Boy?

7 Habits That Turn Boys into Men 1. Taking Responsibility: Real men understand the importance of taking responsibility for their actions and decisions. This habit goes beyond simply admitting when they are wrong;...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I can't stop thinking about my ex. What should I do?

I dated my ex for 2 years a couple of years ago. I stayed single for 2 years after that and have been dating my current boyfriend for a year. My now boyfriend is a great guy and I really tried to love him but I still...

lilymei

Xper 1 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Am I reading too into this?

I had a moment with my coworker and I can’t tell if I’m looking too into it. Full disclosure, we are both in relationships. Him 1 1/2 years and me 2 1/2 years. We were sharing a party together because we’re both servers...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I avoid the pressures of society telling me to be constantly seeking a relationship?

I'm 18. Have never been in a relationship and quite frankly don't ever want to be in one. But I feel constant pressure from everyone else that that's what I need to focus on. It only makes me hate everyone else more than...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He wants to give it a shot but I'm not too sure if we are a match?

I've been talking to this guy for four months, and I do like him, but we've had some disagreements about our lifestyles. There are things he considers a big deal that I don't, and vice versa. We're from different...

n1n1999

Xper 2 Age: 22

If a relationship doesn’t work out, does that mean it wasn’t meant to be?

Given up on dating and focused on self improvement

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

How do you make stuff work with someone who has ADHD?

So my boyfriend knew I ended things with the younger guy (I mentioned some months ago) because of his ADHD and that I felt totally forgotten about. My boyfriend then admitted that he also “used to have adhd” which I found...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Why does she mess with me?

She messaged me on the same day that I left. She called and was a bit upset, but she started talking like we used to. We messaged a bit last night about the relationship. She said things like "I'm not against fixing...

Ice_knight

Xper 5 Age: 30

Other

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Mindfulness: a review.

Mindfulness I listened to a mindfulness podcast. It was about 20 minutes of the sounds of a quietly babbling brook with a throaty woman softly saying little meditations for me to focus on. I couldn't have disagreed more....

SugarSugarplum

Xper 6 Age: 25

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