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See here's the deal when you seek serious committed relationships, you have to comit not only to yourself, but to the other person. That means you have to be willing to accept change in your life, because that is what relationships do... they bring change.

Are you willing to accommodate for change, or do you really just want some one to just show up in your life and fall into place with out missing a step? Because that rarely happens.

The 5 Stages of a Relationship.

1.) The Romance Stage. This is when you have these feelings for the other person and believe they will last for ever.

2.) The Cooling Off Stage. This when you start to come back to earth and consider if there are things that you may of over looked.

3.) Reality Hits Stage. This is when you open your eyes for the first time and are confronted with reality. That if you want to be with this person, what changes are required to be made and are you willing to make them?

4.) Denial Stage. You either start to deny that change is upon you and you refuse to do it. You could refuse to accept that this person is who you thought they would or could be. Their flaws suddenly seem so apparent even when they have been there all a long.

5.) Acceptance Stage. You accept change and fully comit or accept the inevitably of the situation, cut and run.

Now they. say not every relationship goes through all 5 stages, some skip stages and they don't always happen in the same order. Some go through additional stages, but in general no matter what you call them these 5 usually slide into the mix in most case in some way.

Traditional Marriage: In this relationship there is of course both a man and a woman. The guy you with personally believes chivalry isn't dead and that men should be the leader in the household in order to protect his wife and children. He doesn't believe that women should be out working because it is his duty as the man to fetch the money for the family. Now if you are looking for a woman, don't expect your girl to agree with going out and making her own money or earning money for the family. Because with the traditional women she wants to be taking cared of and being the prime homemaker, while you be out and having a long day, your girl might dress really beautiful and present you with a fresh cook dinner and a clean house once you get off of work.

Modern Marriage: Usually in this one there really no strict gender conforming because either the man or woman can take up the role as the breadwinner or homemaker. Or instead of one sticking with the other the two of you can compromise and each switch turns you know do everything 50/50.

Gay Marriage: If you are a man who aren't interested in women than you definitely be more suitable in being married to another man and discussing how you and your partner do responsibilities. The same applies to women who isn't interested in being with a man, you and your future wife can both discuss about how the two of you will take on responsibilities.

Single Life: You are the gentleman or lady who ain't really looking for romance because you prefer to be by yourself and enjoyed the solitude and being able to control literally everything about your house and precious time.