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Should a woman exercise her options in her youth. Should she have experiences. If single, should she flirt with the men she’s attracted to. Knowing that attractive men don’t tend to settle and stray away.

I’ve gotten responses of all sorts.

(You’ve dodged a bullet)

(You missed out)

(You didn’t take a chance at something fulfilling)

(You’ll regret not going out with him forever)

( You’ve avoided STDS from Chad )

( He’s just gonna use you )

It goes back and forth, back & forth… and no clear answer, it’s so confusing. What do you suggest. Do you regret turning down some of the most favorable men? 🥺 Cause right now I’m regretting turning down some of the most favorable men who asked me out 🥺

I read it as a let down which when he commented he'd gone out with simple minded overly attractive cheap & sleazy women - one he even called a horror story himself - before is a rather shitty insult.

The thing is, is we had engaging interesting conversation before the date. And I am not unattractive - that is something many people have said. Yes I put on some weight due to Covid but I blatantly told the guy on our date I'm working to loose it, even spending 3 hours each time at gym various times in the week.

If not interested just fucking say so. His text >...

Good morning, I hope you had a nice weekend with some rest and relaxation. I have been innundated with classes the last couple of days.

I also wanted to share X how I’ve been feeling on a different level. I am enjoying getting to know you, what brings you happiness, what drives you and how you add happiness in to the world of others. You are a remarkable person.

I owe it to you and myself to share I’m not certain I feel connected across all levels in regards to compatibility.

These are never comfortable moments to share with someone but I have to communicate this to you and be transparent on where I’m at. I hope you can appreciate this honesty as I would never want to be hurtful by not sharing these feelings.