Poll- Is it bad for couples to live together & boyfriends girlfriends to have sex?

[Anonymous]

I’m turning 26 this year & I live alone. My step brothers wife’s family & her 5 sisters hate me & angry because I live alone at 26 and angry my boyfriend visits me. they are angry I don’t live with my mom too. They think I’m going down wrong path in life. I assume maybe because we have tatoos? Lol I know many girls live with boyfriend & not married yet it’s normal. We are in a serious relationship I don't know why it’s so bad live with a boyfriend or girlfriend or visit each other. Tattoos are not bad either. I work, I have a business, I live alone because I’m not a baby girl, my dream was have my own tiny apartment. I’m saving money for my future. I don't know what I’m doing is going down wrong path? Lol a flower tatoo & a heart tattoo is so bad lol 😂 take me to jail. I see couples on YouTube they aren’t married yet but have tattoos & the girl doesn’t live with her mom & all their family support them & no one is angry. So why the fuck those sisters are all angry? they are all toxic they want world revolve around them only & me to just follow them have no life. They are vain and gang up on u they act like the kardashians

[Lliam]

Couples who are in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship are supposed to have sex with each other. That's what boyfriends/girlfriends do. It means that they are 100% committed to each other and their relationship.

I wouldn't recommend renting a place together until you are married. That's financially risky. But if one or both of you have your own place, I think it's great to stay with each other.

I lived with one girlfriend. I kept clothes and necessities at her place but I kept my own apartment. All my stuff was there. Sometimes she stayed at my apartment but I mainly lived at her place because it was more convenient for her. It was wonderful.

Tell your sisters to f themselves. It's your life. Their lives probably suck.

[Asker]

Their lives don’t suck they r all married but yes they can f ck themselves

[SnowedIn]

It is not bad.

You are your own adult woman. Live the life you want to live.

I can't answer why those sisters are angry. That said, one guess I have is that they're jealous that you're living the life you want to live. Or they're judgy. Whatever.

Live your life and just be gracious and kind.

[Asker]

They r toxic n fucking annoying

[SnowedIn]

You're 100% right but you can't change them.

[melanieeeB]

Not at all, with 26 you should be an adult, standing on her own two feet

[Asker]

Why I’m going down wrong path all cuz boyfriend visits me? that fmaily is super religious no sex no tatoos just be perfect angel

[Asker]

They r hypocrites cuz they have one sister that does live alone and not married and no one tells her shit

[Asker]

Or having a heart and rose tatoo is going down wrong path 😂😂😂

[Asker]

boyfriend has tatoos but he’s not bad guy. Weird how all those sisters gossiped to my brother. And. Or brother is on their side and brother ignores me and angry and. Now brother told mom the gossip rumor they r spreading

[Asker]

I’m a bad child now everyone suspects I’m 26 and boyfriend visits me 🙄🙄🙄 going down wrong path. All girls live with boyfriend or visit each other wtf?

[melanieeeB]

I would ignore their stuff and not take it personal, also maybe take a little distance to them.

[Asker]

I’m distant from them and I found out all this drama as I saw mom today. I haven’t seen mom 2 months and she’s stressing my head told me that’s reason y brotehr and all her toxic sisters ignore me and angry

[Asker]

Those people don’t exist from my life. And mom manipulates me saying I’ll regret not see her when she’s dead 🙄🙁seriously? All cuz I’m distant 2 months yet other girls can be distant for a year from mom and I can’t?

[melanieeeB]

Isn't it a good thing when they stay away? Lol
Maybe all your brothers and sister hate you out of jealousy, who knows but you are not doing anything wrong

[Asker]

Jealous of what? They r all married have perfect life rich

[Asker]

My family or those toxic mean sister in laws never supported me ever in life. Only my boyfriend supports me 😞😔

[Asker]

I feel only boyfriend takes care of me

[slatyb]

No, it's not. It's completely normal for adult couples to have sex, whether 17 or 21 or 26. Ignore all those nasty people and live your life to suit yourself. You live alone; you don't have to socialize with them. It sounds to me like you would be happier if you didn't. Instead of wasting time with nasty relatives, enjoy time with supportive friends. If they ask you why you haven't been coming around, you can just say "I've been really busy with my boyfriend."

[Asker]

My brothers wife’s 5 sisters all are angry boyfriend visits me and saying I’m going down wrong path going down hill. All those 5 sisters gossiped to my brother so that’s y my brother hates me

[Asker]

They aren’t happy boyfriend visits me & that I live alone at 25/26

[Asker]

They all know as all I did was post dates I go on with boyfriend to movies or fun cool places. Angry I have tattoos. Tattoos means u r going down wrong path apparently. A tiny heart & rose tatoo is wrong path 😂

[slatyb]

So WGAF what they think? You are an adult and don't have to spend a single minute listening to their crap.

[Asker]

Im not doing drugs lol I don't know why they r saying going down wrong path tf?

[Asker]

I didn’t know it was against the law have a boyfriend visit gfs house? All couples live together or have babies not everyone had good luck to marry fast hav all dreams come true

[Fireguy17]

Everyone is different on how they fell about things, and living together can be one of them.
Remember, you are an adult and so is he and you both are quite capable of making your own decisions, and if both of you are fine with your situation, then it becomes their issue that you are living together, not your issue.
You are not here to please them, stick to your beliefs and enjoy life, it is very short.

[Marked_Man]

Ignore them. You're old enough to have and live with a serious boyfriend if you choose. I don't care for tattoos, but you're old enough for that too.

[Asker]

Y they are angry boyfriend visits me? They think I want live alone so I have sex with boyfriend. Lol it’s stupid u can live with mom and have sex in the car.

[Asker]

I live alone becuz it’s my dream have my own tiny apartment. I like having my own private place to rest. My family don’t even have a home.

[Jamie05rhs]

"We are in a serious relationship.". Then why do you always complain about him not taking you seriously and not doing serious relationship stuff with you?

[msc545]

your life is your own and it is none of their business. Ignore them!

[Asker]

How am I going down wrong path…..

[msc545]

you aren't - you are just not doing what they think is correct, which is not their business.

[iSensei]

Ignore it all

[Asker]

Why they are toxic

[iSensei]

I have a tattos too. And they jeaolus u live the life your own choices they not

[Asker]

Well I don’t think they r jelaous they are all married have perfect life rich and I’m not married.

[iSensei]

If u want to married i would to that right? Its your choice why they do not show some respect for it

[iSensei]

Pm me we can discuss it

[Asker]

Follow back to Dm u

[Asker]

A girl cannot choose wen she’ll marry. It’s. A secret no girl knows who or wen she’ll be proposed to. I have no clue wen it’s my time to be married.

[slatyb]

Very unlikely that all have "perfect life". If they had a perfect life they wouldn't be so concerned about yours. Hyper-religious marriages are rarely happy.