Girls, Should a woman exercise her options?

[EmyyWolf]

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Should a woman exercise her options in her youth. Should she have experiences. If single, should she flirt with the men she’s attracted to. Knowing that attractive men don’t tend to settle and stray away.

I’ve gotten responses of all sorts.

(You’ve dodged a bullet)

(You missed out)

(You didn’t take a chance at something fulfilling)

(You’ll regret not going out with him forever)

( You’ve avoided STDS from Chad )

( He’s just gonna use you )

It goes back and forth, back & forth… and no clear answer, it’s so confusing. What do you suggest. Do you regret turning down some of the most favorable men? 🥺 Cause right now I’m regretting turning down some of the most favorable men who asked me out 🥺

YES!

NO..

[LazerBean]

I think that depends on what you mean. To me, a favorable man is someone who has characteristics that are desirable and indicative of him being husband material. Me, exercising my options means picking through the men like that and choosing the best one to date for the purpose of marriage. I have never regretted doing that, and I have never known anyone to regret doing that. It's a highly efficient way to find a spouse with minimal if any negative emotional outcomes.

But to some women, exercising options means sleeping around with men to see who they like best, then dating that person indefinitely. That is something I would definitely not advise anyone to do, and rarely do I see it turn out well for people who do it.

[melanieeeB]

I did date a lot in my early twenties and made my experiences.
I can recommend cause you're learning a lot about guys, behavior and also what you like or don't like, what you want in a partner or absolutely don't want.

But I had my own few rules that I did stick by 1. Don't play with feelings 2. No two people at the same time, too exhausting 3. No sex just making out (if I want to) until it's the right person that I feel enough comfortable with.. worked fine for me

[melanieeeB]

But like I totally support anyone who wanna also go down the sex route haha Whatever works for you personally

[EmyyWolf]

Did you first find out their SIZE 🤏?
And how do you go about doing this? 🤣

[melanieeeB]

Nahh I never asked about the size, I figured it out when he was in me lol
What do you mean with the second question?

[EmyyWolf]

How do you find out. 🤣 is what I meant.
I cannot, pleasure is very important.
I would have to ask for a pic, or give him a hand first, I can’t put some crayon inside me

[melanieeeB]

Ohh, until now it was all just by luck, I never went to sexual while making out and so it was always just a surprise and 2/3 had a good package lol I was lucky haha

[weysally]

in a way, girls flirt from a very early age, most actually with their dad, to see what they can get, I don't think there is a straight girl that hasn't flirted, so yes keep on flirting, it can boost your ego anyway, the human female is like all other creatures, the to attract, the human male is about the only male that doesn't I flirt but then I have been known to go all the way anyway

[Étoile9]

Yes, I regret not having enjoying my 20s enough, but then again I was not confident enough to do so. Then again I'm not saying I would liked to sleep like a whore, just saying I wouldn't have minded more experiences and adventures to learn from.

[FreyaRed]

Yes, but you shouldn't exaggerate. There are a lot of reason why, from your reputation among men up to your personal perception about yourself. Some girls do it for too long and others get particular badge that disclassifies them as serious potential partners for men who have options.

[Ms_Facesitter]

All those phrases can apply depending on how you go about it. Not just us, but men should weigh their options too.
Do I regret some of the most favorable men? I never turned someone down I don't favor. If others find him favorable but I don't, he, to me, is not a favorable men, and I'll turn him down.

If you have regrets of turning certain men down, the problem isn't with weighing your options. It's that you failed to recognize what exactly the options were, their value.

[Anonymous]

Yes, if she feels like it, not something that should be forced/not be natural to her. You also do not find love without interacting with any man, one can end up finding that love when young.

I think one should just relax and have fun. Though, why not also be a bit responsible, like using protection/a condom :D

[Mhmmmalreadykno]

I am still pretty young and I can say that, yes, you should. It helps you learn a lot about what you like and who you are in relationships. It’s in general super fun! Something people should try before officially settling down.

[Anonymous]

Why didn't you delete the loser who said "slut?"

She insults everyone, and no one deletes her/him.

[EmyyWolf]

I did 🤣🤣 it’s a guy. Sex-less lives in moms basement guy 🤣🤣. I even think I know his true identity, because that person says the same thing

[Opinion Owner]

Good for you. If everyone deleted him, he might get bored and leave.

[Anemone978]

Nah I don't regret any of my rejections on hot guys... because I know they just would of used me..

[Haha456]

not all young people have options. don't think that just because someone is young, they can get hot guys.

[HappyWoman34]

Yeah definitely and never settle for someone.